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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Choices

The most wonderful relationships are the sum of many good decisions made over months, years, and decades. In Nicholas Sparks' latest romantic cinematic journey, 'The Choice' (in theaters Feb.5), these issues are explored as a young couple deals with some...

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9 Major Mistakes Women Make in Relationships

As a relationship coach, I'm on the front lines every day hearing all the latest and most common ways that otherwise good people mess up their intimate relationships. While there are a million stories in the big city, the truth is that breakups usually...

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15 Ways to Stop Worrying About Your Love Life

No one denies that life in the modern era is stressful—and dating can add another layer of worry. You get nervous about going out with someone new (who doesn’t?), and may start asking yourself, “Am I ever going to find a great partner? Why don’t...

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4 Strategies to Connect with your Desire for Love

It is easy to hope for a more satisfying love life, but are you truly connected to attaining one? Can you imagine yourself in a happy, healthy, and stable relationship? Or do you notice yourself avoiding the answer? Some of my single clients who are looking...

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15 Reasons to Date a Veterinarian

In the hotly-awaited Nicholas Sparks-penned romance 'The Choice,' (in theaters Feb.5), the leading man just happens to have an extra alluring profession: he's a passionate caretaker of animals. Now who can resist that? Here are 15 reasons to consider...

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Teresa Palmer talks Soul Connections and Life’s Defining Choices

I am not sure anyone can author romantic tales quite as dreamily as Nicholas Sparks, whose latest book-turned-big screen romance 'The Choice' arrives in theaters February 5. This particular story takes love, fate, and life's toughest decisions to a new level,...

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5 Ways People ‘Single-Shame’ Singles!

There is no way around the following truth: The world expects all adults to be in a relationship. Actually, I must clarify that: The world expects all "normal" people to couple up, while simultaneously sending the message that something is wrong with...

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5 Dating Resolutions I am Going to Keep in 2016

“Tomorrow is the first blank page in a 365-page book. Write a good one.” Happy New Year! You rang in the new year and resolved that this will be the year that your dating life changes … for the better! Now what!? Here are 5 resolutions you may want...

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5 Reasons People Lie (and What to Do About It)

You've probably heard the term "little white lie" a thousand times, a term used to describe the kind of harmless fib that men and women tell every day. It's true that not all lies are devious or harmful, but the point is that you have to be clear about...

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4 Beliefs Singles Can Leave in 2015

This will be the year: that you start getting up at five a.m. to go running, that you go on two dates a week, that you develop a system that keeps your closet clutter-free. There’s a funny optimism that occurs at the end of every year. Somehow, despite...

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