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How to Move On After Being Rejected

There is nothing worse than being excited about connecting with someone just to get a dial tone, a voicemail, or no call back. We ALL know what it's like to experience rejection and I have NEVER heard someone say, “I just love the idea of being rejected.” Rejection...

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4 Ways to Restore Trust After Lying

You didn't mean to, but you lied to the person you love the most. Maybe it was about how much you spent on a new outfit, where you went instead of "working late at the office," or the fact that you've been in contact with your ex. Either way, you lied...

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Are You Attracted to the Wrong Type?

You’ve probably heard the famous quote by Albert Einstein that says, “Insanity: Doing the same thing over and over and expecting a different result.” Given that definition, plenty of people might want to get a mental health check-up. Why? Because...

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4 Ways to Heal Yourself from Exhaustion

It's a sad state of affairs that the average modern woman feels completely exhausted most of the time. The great irony is being in that exhausted space, the LAST thing you have time to do (or truthfully want to do) is take care of yourself. And I’m...

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15 Ways to Move From Hurt to Healing

Everyone on planet earth has endured some of life’s hurts and heartaches. And chances are that the longer we’ve lived, the more emotional scars we have to show. Hurts come in a variety of ways: a broken relationship, betrayal, job loss, or death of a loved...


Post-Breakup Question: What Did You Do Right?

Recently, a young woman told me about a guy who had disappeared after exhibiting some fairly skittish behavior. Now she was questioning herself, wondering why her relationships never lasted. I asked her to consider her behavior in this relationship....


The Breakup Test: 5 Questions

Imagine if we knew the precise number of men and women who were considering a breakup at this very moment. It would be astronomical, right? Every day, millions of men and women take inventory of their relationships and ask themselves whether it makes...


Oh, No! I Feel More Attracted to My Date’s Friend!

Meeting someone you're attracted to is always exciting, but it can get complicated when the person you're attracted to is your date's friend. There are a few factors you should keep in mind if you find yourself in this situation, and following these tips...


Going Old School: How to Be a Better Phone Date

People love to complain about how we’ve become too attached to our phones. The funny thing is that many of us don’t really like to actually talk on them. Even if we used to love to chat into the wee hours as teenagers, the convenience of texting,...


Does Dating Make You Frightened? Good.

Last week, I thought I saw a ghost. A flurry of light swished across the living room floor and I tensed for a second. Could it be? It wasn’t. Car headlights, I later realized, were reflecting off a side window and creating the eerie effect. But...