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The Sexiest Books, According to eHarmony Users

As World Book Day approaches on April 23 (yes, that is a thing!), our savvy research scientists took a look at what millions of eHarmony users across the globe are reading, writing about, and relating to. In the U.S., a random sample of eHarmony...

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The Case for Pausing Social Media Early in Dating

Social media has become one of those facts of life, like Mondays being hard and chicken soup soothing the soul. Everyone from grade schoolers to the elderly have social media accounts, which begs the question of whether that’s a good thing. Most men and women...

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‘Should I Settle?’

Dear Sara: I am a 38-year-old unemployed lady wishing to settle down with a guy who has okay financial strength and is intellectually enough for me and spiritually high. After lots of efforts, I could not get what I wanted. Then one guy of 33 years came...

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Phone Etiquette on Dates: 6 Tips

Typically, I'm not someone who thinks a lot about etiquette. For instance, you'll never find me reading a copy of Emily Post's famous book. While I believe it is important to be polite and kind, I personally don't care whether I'm using, say, the right...

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What My 18-year-old Daughter Taught Me About Relationships

My daughter graduated from high school this past May, and is currently on The World Race (a gap year program, #3n9 as they travel to 3 different continents over the course of 9 months). This is not simply traveling around the world with a backpack; rather,...

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18 Ways to Get Over Your Heartbreak

By YourTango expert Dr. Karen Finn Major breakups, like divorce or the end of an engagement, knock you down in just about every way imaginable. Along with losing your relationship, you lose your lifestyle, the goal of raising your children in an intact...

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Are You Too Easily Seduced?

If you’ve ever gone to the grocery store on an empty stomach, you know how quickly a short shopping list of essential items can turn into a cart full of junk you didn’t need and wouldn’t ordinarily buy. The fact is, shopping hungry is a great way to spend...

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Questions to Ask Yourself Before Committing

You’ve been on many dates. You laugh at each other’s jokes. You find their quirks endearing. And you’re excited to see where the relationship might lead. Before you take that leap into a serious committed relationship, here are some questions...

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Nine Things to Never Do After a Breakup

Breakups. Even the most amicable of parting ways can sting. When mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following “don’ts” of breakup etiquette [gallery]

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Relationship Secrets For Sensitive People: Why Emotional Empaths Stay Lonely Or Alone

Loneliness gets to some more than others. But why it hangs on isn’t always apparent when read by traditional medical eyes. As a psychiatrist in Los Angeles and in my workshops I’ve been struck by how many sensitive, empathic people who I call “emotional...

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