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Are You Attracted to the Wrong Type?

Ever wonder why some men and women repeatedly fall for people ill-suited for them? Here are four possibilities.

About You, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Decisions

The most wonderful and long-lasting relationships are the sum of many wise decisions made over months, years, and decades. Sometimes the decision is relatively simple: “Should I accept this person’s invitation to go on a first date?” Other times the decision is far more significant: “Should I accept this marriage proposal?” Along the way, partners […]

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dating wisdom

15 Ways to Glean Wisdom from Your Past

You’ve heard the axiom, “Those who do not learn from history are bound to repeat it.” Some people have dating difficulties because they’ve never taken a hard look at the past to see how it affects the present and future. But let’s emphasize the positive: Everyone can gain valuable insights by exploring their personal, family, and […]

About You, Being Single, Dating Advice, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
when you feel unlovable

Ways to Deal with the ‘I’m Unlovable’ Myth

Recently, some of you took a quiz to find out what your usual way of relating to others is: Secure, or not? And if you have a Secure attachment style, celebrate and enjoy! You’re already set up to do the things that sustain love for life. But if you have a Non-Secure style, and you’d like to […]

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Give up.

‘Would My Deceased Spouse Be Okay with Me Dating?’

There is one fact with which I must begin any article about the afterlife, and it is that we do not know all the answers. Having said that, we do have a great deal of evidence about spirits, spirit communication, and the spirit world from which we can draw persuasive conclusions. And it is this […]

About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
how to find good love

6 Ways to Eliminate Toxic Love and Attract Healthy Love

If you’re tired of doing all the right things yet still end up with emotional manipulators or moody, toxic partners who are unable to love, you need to make happiness a priority and choose to learn to love in a different way. Below are six key concepts you need to attract healthy love and eliminate […]

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love last

Why Does Love Last for Some, and Not Others?

Unless you are dating just for fun — for companionship, laughs, excitement — then chances are you’ve asked yourself the question at the top of this page. If you desire an enduring, stable, fulfilling relationship, you want to know exactly what fortifies love year after year. That’s a critical question, because as we look at […]

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Children or No Children? That is the Question

A major issue for both men and women in finding the right relationship is whether or not children will become a part of it. If your vision centers on creating a family with children, as mine did, learning that a potential partner can’t conceive or has chosen not to have children –– or being that […]

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love at first sight

What’s the Deal with ‘Love at First Sight?’

The concept of love at first sight appears in so many films that you would think most people felt that same way when they first met their partner or spouse. Romantic comedies and dramas portray magical moments where two character’s eyes lock for the first time and life is never the same. Sound familiar? Probably not! We are a culture that thrives […]

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How into You is Your New Partner?

When dating someone new, an unfortunate consequence of the busy lifestyle most people lead today is how hard it can be to know exactly where you fall on his or her list of priorities. On one hand, a partner who faithfully honors commitments at work, or to other friends, or even to themselves in the […]

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