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Important Questions

There are relationship questions you need to ask. Find out what questions and answers are important with relationship advice on eHarmony.

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Once a Cheater, Always a Cheater? 5 Surprising Truths About Trusting a Partner With a Past

Who can you trust? That’s the gamble, and when it comes to choosing a partner, fidelity is a core aspect most of us require. Yet the adage, “once a cheater, always a cheater,” isn’t always true. Here are five guidelines you can use right now to make the wisest choice if you find yourself drawn […]

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Important Questions, Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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How to Say No to Narcissists and Takers

Does this sound familiar? A friend I’ll call “Ed” kept pushing me to contribute to my school’s alumni fund. The more he called me, the more stubborn I felt that my answer was, “No.” I felt that not only did I lack the money necessary to contribute in order to make a true difference, but […]

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About You, Expert Advice, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Choices

The most wonderful relationships are the sum of many good decisions made over months, years, and decades. In Nicholas Sparks’ latest romantic cinematic journey, ‘The Choice’ (in theaters Feb.5), these issues are explored as a young couple deals with some heart wrenching decisions, and must face the question: How far would you go to keep […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
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‘Is He Really into Me?’ 3 Ways to Tell

“He loves me, he loves me not.” Do you remember playing this game when you were young? Think of all the daisies that had their petals torn off by girls (like myself) asking this all-important question. It’s a haunting refrain that is continually asked by women of every age — “How do you know if […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Important Questions
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Are You Attracted to the Wrong Type?

Ever wonder why some men and women repeatedly fall for people ill-suited for them? Here are four possibilities.

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About You, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
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15 Ways to Glean Wisdom from Your Past

You’ve heard the axiom, “Those who do not learn from history are bound to repeat it.” Some people have dating difficulties because they’ve never taken a hard look at the past to see how it affects the present and future. But let’s emphasize the positive: Everyone can gain valuable insights by exploring their personal, family, and […]

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About You, Being Single, Dating Advice, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
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Ways to Deal with the ‘I’m Unlovable’ Myth

Recently, some of you took a quiz to find out what your usual way of relating to others is: Secure, or not? And if you have a Secure attachment style, celebrate and enjoy! You’re already set up to do the things that sustain love for life. But if you have a Non-Secure style, and you’d like to […]

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About You, Important Questions, Important Questions About You, Mind, Body And Spirit
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‘Would My Deceased Spouse Be Okay with Me Dating?’

There is one fact with which I must begin any article about the afterlife, and it is that we do not know all the answers. Having said that, we do have a great deal of evidence about spirits, spirit communication, and the spirit world from which we can draw persuasive conclusions. And it is this […]

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
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6 Ways to Eliminate Toxic Love and Attract Healthy Love

If you’re tired of doing all the right things yet still end up with emotional manipulators or moody, toxic partners who are unable to love, you need to make happiness a priority and choose to learn to love in a different way. Below are six key concepts you need to attract healthy love and eliminate […]

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Why Does Love Last for Some, and Not Others?

Unless you are dating just for fun — for companionship, laughs, excitement — then chances are you’ve asked yourself the question at the top of this page. If you desire an enduring, stable, fulfilling relationship, you want to know exactly what fortifies love year after year. That’s a critical question, because as we look at […]

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