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Can You Have a Healthy Marriage Without Much Sex?

Once the thrill is gone, is it possible to stay together? While experts agree that sex is the an important part of the glue that...

Seven Things Madly-in-love Couples Do to Stay That Way

You’ve probably met some of them: Couples who have been together for years—maybe even decades—and are still madly in love with...

How to Turn Your 'Flirting Switch' On

Through my research, I’ve found that there are five distinct and unique ways of flirting: Playful, Physical, Polite, Sincere, and Traditional....

How Spirituality Impacts a Woman’s Sex Life

Many religiously active women have great sex, debunking the myth that they’re rigid. (I like to call that the revenge of the Church...

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Twelve Ways to Make Your Love Last

Love that lasts is the result of partners embedding themselves in each other’s brains in a positive way. Memory circuits and pleasure get all wound up together so that the other person becomes integral to the very structure of your brain, and you become part of the structure of his. Here are the twelve steps […]

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Five Health Reasons to Make Time for Cuddling

Next time your partner gets on your case about cuddle time – saying they are too hot, need their space, don’t feel like relaxing — present the evidence. Research suggests that there’s more to cuddling than meets the eye. Lovey-dovey’ness aside, the health benefits of cuddling will surely convince them to make time for it. Reason 1: It Feels Good Cuddling […]

Mind, Body And Spirit, Relationship Tips, Relationships, Sex

Romance Reminders: Simple Ways to Turn up the Heat

Romance Reminders: Simple Ways to Turn up the Heat

When it comes to dating, here’s one thing you can count on: Everyone is looking for a romantic relationship that sizzles. No one actually prefers lukewarm leftovers to a fresh, hot gourmet meal.

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Finding Love: Telling Lust from Love

Finding Love: Telling Lust from Love

Love is one of life’s most intense emotions, and when you are in lust it’s easy to think you are feeling love — but the two are very different!

Relationships, Sex

Balancing Sexual Passion In A Relationship

Balancing Passion In A Relationship

A relationship can get muddled and off-kilter when a couple allows one aspect (most often, the physical) to get far ahead of the other aspects!

Relationships, Sex
Making Sparks Fly: The Chemistry of Romance

Making Sparks Fly: The Chemistry of Romance

Dating is often like conducting a chemistry experiment. Here’s what to do when the sparks aren’t flying!

Relationships, Sex