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Our dating experts bring you advice for a range of dating problems. Figure out the dating scene with help from the eHarmony relationship experts.

sense of humor

15 Reasons a Sense of Humor Makes You Hot

Almost every person has “sense of humor” high on the list of things they want in a partner. You know, of course, what you like about another’s person ability to be funny. But have you considered exactly why this quality makes YOU desirable? A good sense of humor makes you highly attractive because it … 1. Expresses […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Dating Tips
flirt effectively

6 Ways to Become a Successful Flirt

Men and women flirt differently, for both different reasons and expected outcomes. Flirting is an art that requires confidence without being over the top. Some of the same things that work in real life, also apply to online flirting. Let’s face it, someone has to break the ice, and all relationships begin with successful flirting. […]

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Being Single, Communication, Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Tips, First Dates
Close up on a man and a woman holding hands at a wooden table

7 Ways to Connect with Your Date

Have you ever struggled to connect on a date? Or felt absolutely nothing sitting across the table from a potential partner? Or have you ever felt a strong connection to someone and believed you were going to get another date, but the feeling was not mutual? Do you have a sense of what was missing […]

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About You, Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Expert Advice
fromcasualtoseriousdating

Move Beyond Casual Dating: 3 Tips for Choosing a Partner You Can Grow With

You met at the right time and everything just fell into place. You’ve dated plenty of other people but it has never felt this right. You’re ready to move past casual dating and take the next step. A big, scary, exciting step. When you find someone you’re ready to take that leap with, it isn’t […]

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Date Tips, Dating, Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Expert Advice
Happy woman on a first date with handsome man showing emotions

First Date Conversation: 6 Expert Tips

Dating apps are useful ways of finding love in today’s world. Surprisingly, many successful long-term relationships began with one click. But it’s also possible to waste a LOT of time hoping for miracles. Dating in the digital age is hard enough, but how do you make the most of that all-important first date by having a […]

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Dating Tips, First Date Questions
high quality guy

4 Things to Look For in a High-Quality Man

If you met an amazingly wonderful, high-quality man today, would you be able to recognize him? I know that most of my clients and women I speak to on a regular basis can’t. They are often concerned with a list of qualities and accomplishments that are watered down and often shallow. When I ask them […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women
Vintage open sign hanging in a door

15 Ways to Get a Closed-Off Person to Open Up

You’ve heard it said many times that communication is crucial for good relationships. Few people would disagree that open, honest communication is important—but that doesn’t mean everyone is willing or able to talk effectively. So what happens when your friend or love isn’t open and you’re having trouble coaxing the words out? Try these strategies: 1. If this person is […]

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Dating Advice, Dating Tips, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips
bad dates

15 Ways to Recover from a Bad Date

We all go on dates with high hopes and good intentions. You expect the encounter to be fun, exciting, and maybe even a step toward something bigger down the line. But not all dates are created equal, and some don’t meet expectations. Maybe you and the other person just didn’t click. Maybe you were just super nervous […]

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Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, First Date Questions
foragers

Best Date Night Restaurants in NYC

So you live in New York or are visiting soon and you want to know the best date night restaurants? No matter how long you’ve been together, what you’re celebrating or what you’re doing, Manhattan has a big array of dining options to make whatever evening you’re looking to have a success. From farm-to-table dinners […]

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Dating Tips, eHarmony Feature, First Dates, Metro Dating Guide
strong women

How Strong and Successful Women Find Love Without Settling

She’s strong, powerful, successful, and driven. Sounds like I’m describing an amazing woman, right? Trouble is, when it comes to dating, the same traits that make you amazing in your career can fall flat in your love life. At some point in your life, you’ll encounter those who say you are intimidating, too independent, and don’t […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women