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Our dating experts bring you advice for a range of dating problems. Figure out the dating scene with help from the eHarmony relationship experts.

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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Choices

The most wonderful relationships are the sum of many good decisions made over months, years, and decades. In Nicholas Sparks’ latest romantic cinematic journey, ‘The Choice’ (in theaters Feb.5), these issues are explored as a young couple deals with some heart wrenching decisions, and must face the question: How far would you go to keep […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
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‘Is He Really into Me?’ 3 Ways to Tell

“He loves me, he loves me not.” Do you remember playing this game when you were young? Think of all the daisies that had their petals torn off by girls (like myself) asking this all-important question. It’s a haunting refrain that is continually asked by women of every age — “How do you know if […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Important Questions
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Dealing with Dating Burnout

Do any of the following statements ring true for you? “All the good ones are taken.” “If it’s meant to be, it’ll happen, right? I should stop looking.” “Sure, I’d accept the right partner if they came along. But they have to find me.  I’m done making an effort.” “I’m afraid love won’t happen for […]

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Dating Dilemmas: Who Should Make the First Move?

Since the 1960s, our roles in the dating world have shifted dramatically. These changes have been great, but they’ve also left many of us unsure about common dating etiquette and practices. The dating world isn’t so clear cut anymore. Our eH+ clients often ask us who should be the pursuer in a relationship. There are all kinds […]

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About You, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Men, Dating Tips For Women
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The Biggest Dating Dos and Don’ts from Our Favorite Horror Films

If you’re prepping for a first date this Halloween, keep in mind the dating wisdom offered by these classic horror movies. 1. Dating Do: Behave yourself. It’s a general rule that good girls survive. Act accordingly. 2. Dating Don’t: Get drunk. Drunk characters end up playing the fools and victims in horror flicks. You don’t want to […]

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Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Tips
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Pickup Lines for the Halloween Party

If you’re dateless for this year’s neighborhood Halloween bash, bring your best costume idea to life, prime your sweet tooth, and get ready to mingle. Dressing in wacky attire might even give you that boost of courage to try one of the ghoulish day’s cheesiest pickup lines. Pickup lines for the Halloween party: 1. I’m trying […]

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Dating Tips, Pickup Lines
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Are These Subconscious Mistakes Telling Your Date You’re Not Interested?

The only time you should be hard to read is during a poker game or boardroom negotiations. Your first date is not one of those times, and yet so many of us are hard to read. Unless you’re specifically telling your date, “Hey, I like you!”, they are often left looking for subtle subconscious cues […]

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Why Men are More Distant in Relationships

Women immerse themselves in their romantic relationships, while men place their romantic partners on an equal but distant footing, according to research from Oxford University. The study shows that, generally, women are more invested in their relationships than men and that their happiness and well-being is more dependent upon how things are going in their intimate relationships. Is this a surprise to […]

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Dating Issues, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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5 First Date Conversation Rules You Should Totally Break

We’ve all heard of first date rules. They forbid talk of taboo subjects like religion or politics, they instruct you to be polite, and to play it cool because god forbid we actually talk about what we want out of life and our relationships. Most of these rules were designed to keep your first date […]

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Dating Tips, First Date Questions, First Dates
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Chemistry: You Know You Want It, but What Is It?

Chemistry is definitely a requirement for a fulfilling relationship, but it doesn’t always transpire in the way we would like to think. Most of us have visions of being swept off of our feet by Mr./Ms. Right. We imagine there will be that initial, magical moment where our eyes lock and we lose ourselves in each […]

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