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Our bold, scientific approach to online dating means more quality dates
with deeply compatible singles that truly understand you.

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how eHarmony works

You plus eHarmony!

This is where we first meet. You start by taking our Relationship Questionnaire – look at it more like an exercise to get your heart really moving. It is designed to help us get to know you at a deeper level. It’s the first step in finding love. Take it! It’s comprehensive and at times revealing, but don’t worry, it’s a lot of fun and a breeze to get through.

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It's important to be honest when answering the questionnaire – it is not a test, so relax and have fun! Don't worry if you're messy or you get sweaty palms – it makes us who we are. We ask you these questions so we can match you with people who are truly compatible with you. So exhale and let it all go. And to make things even easier, you can take the questionnaire on the go, anywhere using your mobile device, iPad, or desktop.

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Look, a free personality profile!

After taking the questionnaire we gain a deeper understanding of who you are and who matches best with you. You also get to learn a little about yourself with your personality profile. This can be a very valuable dating tool – after all, the more you know about yourself the more you will know what you need from your match.

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this is where it gets exciting!

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Start talking with your matches

eHarmony delivers you a piping hot batch of matches, daily. It’s ok to do jumping heel clicks at this stage. Once matched, review their profiles. Pick a membership that works best for you. Then start talking with your matches – you’ll see how organic the process becomes with Guided Communication and features to let you talk to matches a comfortable pace for you.

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We make meaningful introductions – only compatible matches fill your inbox. That means the chances are high that you’re going to get along with them, at the very least. And once you start communicating is when you find out if sparks are there.

Get to know your matches at your own pace – guided communication helps you ease into getting to know your matches or you can skip that and go straight to direct communication with eH Mail.

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We take your privacy and security very seriously — so only your matches can see you and you must be a member to see photos. This is unlike our competitors who allow users to randomly search for people and contact them. Not in our house.

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