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Breaking Up

A relationship break up is always tough, but advice from the eHarmony relationship experts can help. Get free relationship break up advice now.

get over breakup

18 Ways to Get Over Your Heartbreak

By YourTango expert Dr. Karen Finn Major breakups, like divorce or the end of an engagement, knock you down in just about every way imaginable. Along with losing your relationship, you lose your lifestyle, the goal of raising your children in an intact family, and all the other dreams you had for the future. Each loss feels […]

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Breaking Up, Relationship Problems, Relationships
Pretend you’re fine.

Nine Things to Never Do After a Breakup

Breakups. Even the most amicable of parting ways can sting. When mourning the end of a relationship, be sure to avoid the following “don’ts” of breakup etiquette.

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Breaking Up, Relationships
Unchecked Emotional Baggage

Nine Reasons Good Relationships Go Bad

Most of the triggers that cause a budding relationship to detonate are not that mysterious. Here are nine of the most common:

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Breaking Up, Relationships
'It’s Me, Not You': Why We’re Wired to Sabotage Our Relationships

‘It’s Me, Not You’: Why We’re Wired to Sabotage Our Relationships

In any relationship, you are bound to encounter a few bumps in the road. When this happens, you may be tempted to point a finger at your partner, blaming him or her for your relationship woes.

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Breaking Up, Relationship Advice, Relationships
Rocky Relationship: Nix it or Fix it?

Rocky Relationship: Nix it or Fix it?

If you’re in the early phases of a new relationship, the last thing you want to think about are problems. Why dwell on the negative?

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Breaking Up, Important Questions, Relationship Advice, Relationships
He Loves You, But He’s Not 'In Love' With You?

He Loves You, But He’s Not ‘In Love’ With You?

I get so many letters from women who’ve been investing their time and energy in a man only to find out that he just doesn’t feel for her in “that way.” If this has ever happened to you, then y

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Breaking Up, Relationship Advice, Relationships
"Then maybe we shouldn't be together!"

Relationship Killers: 9 Phrases to Nix Now!

Are the following nine phrases part of your vocabulary when dealing with the love of your life? Remove these fighting words from your love lingo and you’ll reap the rewards.

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Breaking Up, Communication, Relationships
Why Rejection Isn't All About You

Why Rejection Isn’t All About You

When someone you care about ends a relationship, it can evoke feelings that range from disbelief to despair and everything in between. “How could this happen?” you think.

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Breaking Up, Relationships
Five Tips For a Smooth Split

Five Tips For a Smooth Split

You know the time has come. He just isn’t the one for you and you know you’re going to break his heart.

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Breaking Up, Relationships
Business in the front. Business in the back.

The Top Eight Reasons Men Fall Out of Love

You’ve lost that lovin’ feeling. Now, it’s  gone, gone, gone. Sometimes a man wakes up to find that it is gone. He’s no longer in love.

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Breaking Up, Dating Tips For Women, Relationships