What are eharmony Icebreakers?

Icebreakers are a fun way to start a conversation with a new Match without getting bogged down in small talk. Once a Match is confirmed – after you have both hit Like on some aspect of each others’ profiles – you can take things a step further by sending an Icebreaker.

Once you hit send, your Match will receive five pairs of photos and be invited to choose which of each pair they like best. You will do the same and once you have both made your choices, you can compare results.

Here’s how to get started:

  • Go to your Messages tab and select to whom you’d like to send an Icebreaker
  • In the Message window, you’ll see a plus sign, which will give you a ‘send Icebreaker’ option