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eharmony cost for a membership & what you can expect

If you’re curious about how much eharmony costs, this article will help you understand our membership structure, whether eharmony offers a free trial, and details on the benefits you can expect in return for investing in eharmony’s costs. We want to show you how we support you on your dating journey and how we’ll make finding real love a fun, efficient and successful experience.

At eharmony, real love is at the center of everything we do. As one of the original dating platforms, we have been at the forefront of creating meaningful relationships based on true compatibility and connection.  This approach has established us as the #1 trusted dating app1 and has helped over 2 million people find real love.

Is eharmony free? How do I start a free trial?

Connect with Compatible People Today

Basic Membership is free on eharmony and everyone who joins completes the Compatibility Quiz to learn more about their personalites and relationship preferences. Once completed, you can see other member profiles on your Discover list. You can send Likes and even a first massage.

When you’re ready to take the next step, upgrade by choosing one of our Premium Memberships. These are not free, but you can choose from a range of enhanced features on our dating site and app. You can unlock enhanced search features, see photos of other members and message anyone you match with.

How much does eharmony cost?

Options for Every Dating Journey

We know it can take time to find the right person. That’s why we offer a range of Premium memberships for 6, 12 and 24 months and members can select the plan that best meets their needs.

Membership terms and prices are also available on the Subscription page, which is available by clicking “Upgrade to Premium” on the Welcome Page once logged in. 

You can choose from a variety of payment options to pay for the cost of eharmony, including:

  • Visa, MasterCard, Discover, or American Express credit cards
  • Debit cards that feature a Visa or MasterCard logo
  • PayPal

Reasons to start dating with eharmony

#1 trusted dating app

Highest Quality Dating Pool2

Support on every step of your dating journey

Over 2 million have found love

Benefits for free
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use all messaging tools
Limited messaging
Benefits with costs
Access to millions of relationship-minded singles
Unlimited matches
Use all messaging tools
Unlimited messaging
See all members’ photos
See who’s viewed you
Your unique Personality Profile
Change your search settings
Dedicated customer service

In addition to the basic membership, we offer you the option of choosing between various premium memberships. The functions included in a premium membership depend on the individually selected service package. You can find all membership details in the eharmony app. There you can decide which functions you would like to use.

Check out our eharmony love stories

eharmony believes everyone deserves love – that’s why we’ve spent over 20 years bringing couples together in happy, authentic relationships. Over 2 million people have met and fallen in love on eharmony.

eharmony success illustrated by a happy couple

“Ben and I just connect and see things the same way. eharmony put me with the perfect person.”

– Hannah –
Tobi & Brandon

“I can honestly say we wouldn’t have met if it wouldn’t have been for eharmony.”

– Tobi –
Cara & Kyle

“Right from the start, I felt respected and loved by Kyle, which gave me so much ease in communicating with him.”

– Cara –

Why is it worth paying for eharmony?

Invest in Real Love

Real love and connection are so important to our overall happiness, wellbeing and quality of life. Finding and cultivating these connections requires time and effort, but it’s all worth it when you meet someone special. So, when you decide it’s time to find a meaningful relationship, eharmony is here for you.

Here are a few reasons why eharmony costs are worth the investment, and why we’re uniquely positioned to help you find real love.


Decades of Experience

Since 2000, eharmony has been at the forefront of creating highly compatible relationships based on key dimensions of personality that predict the most successful, meaningful relationships. Just take it from one of the two million people who’ve found real love on eharmony.

Highest Quality Dating Pool

eharmony is passionate about creating real love for all. We don’t have a type – members represent individuals of all ages, demographics, and backgrounds. People who use eharmony are seeking meaningful relationships based on something deeper than just looks, likes, and location. They’re here for love. Just like you. By joining eharmony and investing in eharmony’s cost for a Premium Membership, you’re joining a high-quality, highly engaged community — 2.3 million messages are sent on eharmony every week.

#1 Trusted Dating App

Dating should be a fun and exciting adventure. eharmony is committed to providing our members with a safe environment to meet new people and start meaningful relationships so you can focus enjoying the process of finding real love.

We can’t thank eharmony enough for matching us!

– John & Angela –

Support Throughout Your Dating Journey

Our members are everything to us, and we’re here to support you during every step of your dating journey. This includes the helpful insights provided through our Personality Profiles to help you learn more about yourself and what you’re looking for in a partner, the personal assistance offered by our best-in-class Customer Care team, and the informative dating tips and resources available on our Dating Advice blog.

eharmony costs: Invest in real love

If you’re ready to experience real love for yourself – we’re ready for you.

At eharmony, we’re experts at helping people find meaningful relationships that enrich their lives. If you’re ready for real love, we’re here to help you find it. We’ll be there with you every step of the way. Here is a recap of everything that comes with eharmony’s costs:

  • Proven expertise at helping millions of people build uniquely compatible relationships
  • A high-quality community of people who are looking for genuine connections, just like you
  • The peace of mind that comes with finding love on the #1 Trusted Dating App
  • Valuable insights into yourself and your ideal partner thanks so our Compatibility Quiz and Personality Profile
  • Guidance and support through every step of your dating journey from our best-in-class Customer Care team, and informative tips on our Dating Advice blog.
  • A variety of tools to help you have stronger and more meaningful conversations with other members, right from the very first message.

Signing up is free but the benefits of Premium Membership are well worth eharmony’s costs. Join today to take the first step toward more meaningful and compatible connections.

eharmony Membership & Costs FAQ

Here are answers to the four most frequently asked questions about an eharmony membership. 

1. What membership options does eharmony offer?

Start for free with a Basic membership which lets explore eharmony. If you want to check out our enhanced features, see photos and unlock unlimited messaging you can upgrade to one of our Premium memberships for 6, 12 or 24 months.

2. What is free on eharmony?

After becoming a member and taking the Compatibility Quiz, you can see all your matches for free, so long as they fit your search preferences. You can also enjoy limited messaging.

3. How long can I use eharmony for free?

For as long as you like. eharmony is free to join and there are no time restrictions on Basic membership. It’s up to you when you decide to become a Premium member.

4. Is it worth subscribing to eharmony?

If you’re looking for a meaningful connection, it can be helpful to subscribe to gain access to all of our features. Our scientific based approach has established us as the #1 trusted dating app and has helped over 2 million people find real love.

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  1. 2022 Survey of 1,300 is a Respondents from the US, UK, Canada and Australia

  2. Based on a 2023 survey of 2,807 dating app users in the U.S., UK, Canada and Australia