Try eHarmony today!

Already a member? Log in

  • Advice
  • Blog
  • Dating

  • Relationships

  • Using eHarmony

  • Dating Tips

  • About You

Relationships

Get expert relationship advice on eHarmony. Find relationship tips and insights from eHarmony experts to help you start or sustain your relationship.

keep relationship happy

Keep Your Relationship Together: The 10 Essentials

This is not the 50s or even the 90s. Relationships seem to be more and more transitory. Divorce rates are high, break-ups frequent, and long-term commitment is more the exception than the rule. There is hope, as there do exist some simple, universal, essentials that people require from their partners. These needs may be simple, […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationship Tips, Relationships
signsofemotionalabuse

10 Subtle Signs of Emotional Abuse

If you’ve never been involved with a cunning, pathological lying, narcissistic, abusive partner, you may not know what you’re dealing with. When you date an abusive personality, you may buy into his charm, braggadocio, and phony façade while downplaying his inconsiderate and questionable behavior. Or you mistrust your instincts that your boyfriend or husband is […]

Read more >>
About You, Communication, Dating Issues, Relationship Problems, Relationships
Blonde caucasian business woman yawning while traveling by bus early morning. Public transport and commuting to work.

15 Ways to Deal With Someone Who May be Losing Interest

You and your partner were drawn together for many reasons–physical attraction, common interests, and more. For weeks and maybe months, the two of you got better acquainted, got closer, and everything looked positive. But now you’ve started to sense and pick up small clues that he or she is losing interest. That person might be backing away […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationships

15 Ways to Know If You Are a Top Priority in Your Love’s Life

“How important am I to you? Am I a priority in your life?” Even if you’ve never actually asked your partner these questions, it’s likely you’ve thought them. When you’re in love, you want to know where you fit on the priority list. Sometimes it’s hard to know for sure. But there are signals that […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
Set of old mailboxes with rust attached to the fence

Your Long Distance Relationship: Signs it Could be in Trouble

“Was he acting weird?” “She seemed bored.” “It used to be wonderful. What happened?” People ask themselves questions like these all the time when they think something is “off” in their relationship. When you can spend regular face-to-face time with your partner, it’s easier to follow up on that sinking feeling and figure out whether […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
meeting in person after online dating

15 Ways to Have a Successful ‘Define the Relationship’ Talk

When you were a teen, your parents may have had “The Talk” with you—that awkward discussion about the birds and the bees. With that behind you (thankfully!), and now that you’re dating, you might feel the need for a significant talk of a different kind: The Define the Relationship conversation. There comes a point when […]

Read more >>
Dating Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
intimacy issues

15 Ways to Cope with a Relationship That’s Coming Apart

Your relationship started with great promise and that positive momentum carried the two of you forward for quite a while. But now the hopefulness and high expectations have dimmed, and things have become frayed  — a bit like your old throw rug. The reality of a once-bright relationship fading away is hard to deal with, […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
divorce proof a relationship

15 Ways to Divorce-Proof Your Relationship

Most people approach dating with a strong mix of excitement and apprehension. One big reason for the latter is the awareness that so many marriages don’t make it (almost half, according to numerous studies). Chances are that you have been impacted by divorce, either your own, your parents’, or another family member’s. You know the pain […]

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationship Tips, Relationships
dos and donts on social media after breakup

6 Big Dos and Don’ts of Social Media after a Tough Breakup

Repeat after me: Be the bigger person. Be the bigger person. Who can resist the urge to look at their ex’s Facebook page after a breakup? It calls your name and whispers, “Check me out!” No harm, right? An astute researcher in England begs to differ. One study concluded that the more time you spend […]

Read more >>
Breaking Up, Relationships
is he interested in me how to know

5 Reasons Why Good Relationships Go Bad

Beware of the five things that can sabotage an otherwise promising partnership.

Read more >>
Relationship Advice, Relationships