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4 Questions to Ask Before Bringing Your New Flame to the Family’s Holiday Gathering

When it comes to attitudes about the holiday season, there’s no such thing as a grey area. You either love it or hate it! Like most of our gut reactions to life’s big events, our feelings for that “jolly time of the year” have a lot to do with our childhood experiences. Good or bad, […]

Relationship Advice, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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7 Keys to a Thriving Marriage

Not only do we think marriage is here to stay, we think marriage is better than ever (if you know the ingredients needed to keep love alive and thriving). Positive examples of marriage and long-term relationships abound — they are everywhere! Successful and long-term relationships are the single greatest contributors to social order in the […]

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10 Common Reasons for Divorce

If you think that sexual infidelity is the leading cause of divorce, you’ve got it all wrong. YourTango polled over 100 of their experts to see what they say are the top reasons married couples decide to split, and, believe it or not, communication problems came out on top as the number one reason marriages fail. […]

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Getting Through Breast Cancer, Together

My parents have always had a beautiful, supportive marriage, but nothing has shown me just how deep their love for one another runs as going through cancer together. My dad is a colon cancer survivor and through every visit, every trial, every surgery, and every disappointment along his recovery, she has stood by his side. […]

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Why Men are More Distant in Relationships

Women immerse themselves in their romantic relationships, while men place their romantic partners on an equal but distant footing, according to research from Oxford University. The study shows that, generally, women are more invested in their relationships than men and that their happiness and well-being is more dependent upon how things are going in their intimate relationships. Is this a surprise to […]

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6 Things to Stop Now if You Want a Successful Relationship

Ready for a relationship that will last? Here are six things you need to QUIT first! 1. Quit thinking it WON’T last. Going into a relationship thinking it’s doomed means only one thing – it is. Every time things aren’t perfect you’ll feel validated. “See? I knew it. We didn’t have a chance.” If you honestly believe […]

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9 Tips to Help Create a Love that Lasts

How many of us have learned how to build loving relationships? Where did we learn? At home? At school? There is an art and science to building strong relationships. These are indispensable tips, written with romantic relationships in mind, but with a little modification you can apply them to your friendships, family, and even work relationships. 1. Create […]

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The Long-Distance Relationship: 6 Things to Remember

Love doesn’t always respect geographic boundaries, or easily take a backseat to educational pursuits, familial obligations, and career opportunities. Long-distance relationships (LDR) are proliferating, with an estimated 14 million couples defining their relationships as such and a staggering 75 percent of engaged couples reporting having been in a long-distance relationship at some point. Even as […]

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15 Ways to Break Free From Control Freaks

When you hear the words “control freak,” there’s likely a certain person who pops into your mind. These are the people who meddle in your business, tell you how to do things, and hold you to impossible standards. They are quick to point out your shortcomings and always have the right answer (allegedly). Whoever the controller […]

Relationship Problems, Relationship Tips, Relationships
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2 Things to Know About Texting and Dating

It is no secret that much of the communication between potential or new partners occurs behind the computer screen or through text messaging. By definition, online dating begins on the Internet, however, growing trends suggest that new relationships continue to take place over technology and have become less about connecting and interacting in person. As […]

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