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Important Questions

There are relationship questions you need to ask. Find out what questions and answers are important with relationship advice on eHarmony.

Six Ways to Better Yourself...and Your Partner

Six Ways to Better Yourself…and Your Partner

Inspiring your partner to “greatness” is not rocket science. To paraphrase the wisdom of The Golden Rule: Simply be the partner you want to have.
Here are six ways to begin:

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Commitment, Important Questions, Relationship Advice, Relationships
Questions to Ask Before Getting Serious

Questions to Ask Before Getting Serious

While it’s impossible to gauge in advance whether any couple will actually make it ‘til death do they part, there are some compatibility factors that offer insight as to whether they’ve got a fight

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Commitment, Important Questions, Relationships
You Share Life Priorities and Values

Is He or She The One? 10 Things to Consider

How do you know if your partner is “the one” for you? While some “just know,” most people said there were certain signs which clued them in…here’s what we discovered as we asked numerous couples.

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Commitment, Important Questions, Relationships
Rocky Relationship: Nix it or Fix it?

Rocky Relationship: Nix it or Fix it?

If you’re in the early phases of a new relationship, the last thing you want to think about are problems. Why dwell on the negative?

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Breaking Up, Important Questions, Relationship Advice, Relationships
Eight Signs You May Not Be Ready for a Relationship

Eight Signs You May Not Be Ready for a Relationship

I know what you’re thinking right now. “Of course, I’m ready for a relationship. It’s what I’ve been waiting so long for! I just need to know how I can get one started!”

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About You, Expert Advice, Important Questions
Can You Rewire Your Brain for Love?

Can You Rewire Your Brain for Love?

Marsha Lucas, PhD, has become a relationship guru after listening to her patients talk about their love lives during her 20 years as a psychologist.

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About You, Expert Advice, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit, Physical Chemistry
Real Love Versus Infatuation

Real Love Versus Infatuation

If you’ve grown up in Western culture, you’ve been inundated from the time you were born with images and beliefs about love.

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Important Questions, Relationships
The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

The Challenge of Speaking Up For Yourself

What do you do when you get a knot in your stomach in response to someone being subtly inauthentic, angry, judgmental, demanding or needy?

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit
Getting Back Together

Getting Back Together

How do you know if reuniting after a breakup is an awesome—or awful—idea? Many wedded couples tell stories of temporary breakups on their journey to the altar.

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Important Questions, Relationship Advice, Relationships
Paul Tacorian: What I've Learned About Love

Paul Tacorian: What I’ve Learned About Love

King of bling Paul Tacorian, of the famed Tacori jewelry, is around couples in love all the time.

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About You, Important Questions, Mind, Body And Spirit