Free your heart and love will follow

Imagine if you let your heart do the talking. What if it told you to put yourself out there because the right person for you will listen?

We’re here to help you get that conversation started. Take our questionnaire, and together we can find what your heart is looking for.

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Meet the man behind eHarmony

Dr. Neil Clark Warren, Founder

Dr. Warren is a clinical psychologist and author of eight books on love, marriage and emotional health. During 35 years of counseling thousands of married couples, Dr. Warren observed a set of characteristics that seemed to be present in all successful relationships. He called them the 29 Dimensions of Compatibility. After extensive research involving thousands of married couples, Dr. Warren confirmed that these dimensions were indeed highly predictive of relationship success and could be used to match singles. Ten years later, eHarmony's compatibility matching is responsible for nearly 4% of U.S. marriages.*

2012 U.S. survey conducted for eHarmony by Harris Interactive®

eHarmony - #1 Trusted Online Dating Site for Singles

eHarmony is the first service within the online dating industry to use a scientific approach to matching highly compatible singles. eHarmony's matching is based on using its 29 DIMENSIONS® model to match couples based on features of compatibility found in thousands of successful relationships.

eHarmony is committed to helping singles find love every day, and with over 20 million registered online users, we are confident in our ability to do so. The eHarmony Compatibility Matching System® matches single women and men based on 29 Dimensions® of Compatibility for lasting and fulfilling relationships.

Traditional Internet dating can be challenging for those singles looking for love that lasts. But eHarmony is not a traditional dating site. Of all the single men or women you may meet online, very few will be compatible with you specifically, and it can be difficult to determine the level of compatibility of a potential partner through methods of conventional dating services – browsing classified ads, online personals, or viewing profile photos. Our Compatibility Matching System does the work for you by narrowing the field from thousands of single prospects to match you with a select group of compatible matches with whom you can build a quality relationship.

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Nearly 4% of U.S. Newlyweds Can't Be Wrong

eHarmony is different than other online dating websites and services, and we believe our success speaks for itself. On average, 438 people get married every day in the United States because of eHarmony; that accounts for nearly 4% of new U.S. marriages.* At eHarmony, we believe you deserve to find love – true love that comes with a lasting relationship. Because of this, we are committed to assisting singles everywhere in their search to find love and romantic fulfillment.

2012 U.S. survey conducted for eHarmony by Harris Interactive®

Meet People of all Ages, Races, and Religions on eHarmony

With over 20 million registered users, the eHarmony member base is an ethnically, racially, and religiously diverse group of individuals of all ages – all of whom are looking to find someone special. Amongst our most popular demographics are: Christian Singles, Jewish Singles, Black Singles, Hispanic Singles, Asian Singles, 30s Singles and Senior Singles. We understand it can be difficult to find a mate with whom you share a similar background, goals, or beliefs, and regardless of who you may be looking for, eHarmony wants to help you find the love of your life.

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Find Local Singles Online

No need to hang out in the local coffee shop to find a date. eHarmony recognizes it can be difficult to meet people with whom you share common interests and goals within your geographical area, and we can help. eHarmony matches you with compatible local men or women - whether you're looking for love in Los Angeles, Denver, or Worcester, Massachusetts. Our membership pool consists of quality singles residing in all 50 U.S. states and more than 200 countries worldwide. Wondering who is on eHarmony in your neighborhood? The girl next door could be your next date, and your next date could be the best date of your life.

Free Personality Profile

Receive your Free Personality Profile and get matched just by taking our Relationship Questionnaire.

Announcing the launch of Dating the Second Time Around, a new eHarmony book exploring...

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  • How to make a new relationship work
  • What didn’t work in your last relationship
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More Personal than Personal Ads

Unlike traditional dating websites, eHarmony matches compatible men and women based on 29 Dimensions of Compatibility that are predictors of long-term relationship success. Determining compatibility through conventional dating methods could take months, or even years, of interaction between you and your potential partner. At eHarmony, we deliver more than personal ads. We are committed to matching you with truly compatible men or women in order to provide you with the best online dating and relationship experience possible. This is one of the many reasons why eHarmony is now the #1 Trusted Online Dating Site for American singles.

Start Dating with eHarmony Today

To begin your eHarmony experience, register now and complete your Relationship Questionnaire. Once you've completed the questionnaire, you will receive your FREE Personality Profile and our Matching System will begin prescreening singles against your profile. Once matched, review your matches, and choose the payment plan you prefer when you're ready to begin communication with a match.

eHarmony Success Stories

If you've met someone special through eHarmony, please contact us and let us know how it all started and how the relationship is progressing. Thousands of eHarmony couples have shared their stories with us. To learn more about eHarmony success stories, simply click the link below.

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Free Online Dating Advice and Community

We at eHarmony want you to find love and romance and to make it last. To assist you in this quest, we offer free dating advice at: eH Advice. Meet people in our on line dating community, utilize our Date Planner, and receive advice from our relationship experts.

Find True Compatibility Today

Isn't it time you experienced the joy of falling in love with someone who sees you, loves you, and accepts you for who you are? This is the kind of joy that comes from finding someone special with whom you share true compatibility, and it's compatibility that forms the basis of every match we make at eHarmony.

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What makes us different?

When it comes to finding someone who's right for you, we think the best way we can help is by getting to know you and what you're looking for.

That's why we designed our one-of-a-kind questionnaire to dig deeper to uncover your attitudes, beliefs and personality.

Once you've told us about yourself, we'll introduce you to singles who truly complement you, across 29 key areas that help develop a great long-term relationship.

Which means you've already got a great foundation and a head start.

How we match

Ever wonder what makes relationships succeed?
So did we.

That's why over 10 years ago, we set out to determine what set the happiest couples apart from the least happy.

After studying thousands upon thousands of couples, we discovered that compatibility across these 29 key areas were the best predictors of happy and long-lasting relationships.

Profile, pictures and communication

Unlike other sites that ask you to scan thousands of pictures and paragraphs at random, eHarmony pre-screens all your matches and sends you only the ones who have real potential for you. This will save you considerable time and energy.

You can read your matches' profiles, view their photos, and choose from among them who you want to connect with. We offer different forms of communication so you can get to know your matches at a pace that's right for you.

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