Douglas and Tami
When I met Tami, everything changed for me. Not only was she a very attractive person, she was also compatible to me; and she felt the same. My conscious effort to meet a compatible mate has paid off! This time instead of working hard, I decided to work smart. Meeting the right person by chance is a costly gamble. I spent too much time, too much money and expended too much hope in projects that didn't pan out after 2-3 months... it was disheartening. Then I came across eHarmony. It all made so much sense to me. My undergraduate degree in psychology helped me to understand that people are complex by nature, and that complexity is multiplied when personalities are immersed in a close relationship. eHarmony helped me sort through the interpersonal complexities of people who mean well, and look attractive, but are not compatible with my personality. The fluid connection I have with Tami was previously unknown to me. It still boggles my mind how in sync we are. She relates to me on levels that no one else has ever been able to relate to me. Our communication is fluid. Our interests are similar. I can totally be myself without fearing that I'll do or say something wrong. Of course no one is perfect, but I don't feel that I am on guard to protect the relationship. Now I have found the love of my life!
Everyone who knows us is happy for us too! When you know what you want, you have to make intelligent decisions that lead you to the outcome you desire. I know a lot of people who want to be married, but they are stuck in their old ways. They are wasting time and becoming more discouraged. As I said, you can work hard or you can work smart! Thank you eHarmony!