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Using eHarmony

Get advice for using eHarmony. Improve your dating profile, meet singles, and make the most of the powerful compatibility matching on the eHarmony dating site.

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Email 411: How to Be Sure You’re Getting All Messages from Your Matches

While we clearly love technology – specifically, email for delivering messages from your matches – we don’t love that some of the match notification messages may not be making it into your inbox! Please check your email spam folders often to make sure these important messages aren’t accidentally ending up in the wrong place. The […]

Account Settings, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony

Five Things You Need to Know About eHarmony’s New Hands-On Matching Service: eH+

On December 1, a new kind of eHarmony is going to be live and ready for action. It’s a new premium version of eHarmony called eH+. I want to share five important things you need to know about eH+ and how it can help you. If you like what you see below, please visit […]

eHarmony Feature, Using eHarmony
Manage Your Expectations

Twelve of the Smartest Things You Can Do to Encourage Success on eHarmony

We went to eHarmony’s Customer Care team and asked a simple question, "What can every user do, starting right now, to encourage more success on eHarmony?" Here’s what they told us.

Dating Tips, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony
online dating profile photos

The Most Successful Online Dating Profile Photos Revealed

What matters more than anything when it comes to your online dating profile? One word: Photos. Photos can drastically increase your chances of getting more communication and dates. Or not. In fact, profiles with photos are nine times more likely to get communication. Use your photos as a primary tool to express who you are, what you love […]

Dating Advice, Dating Photos, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony

Nine Ways to Avoid Online Dating Burnout

For the vast majority of people, life is hectic, stressful, and exhausting. With pressure at work, weekend obligations, household chores, kids and/or parents to care for, who has time to date? Or even if you have the time, do you have the energy to meet new people while feeling present and engaged in the process? […]

Dating Advice, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony
A Photo Says A Lot About You

Online Dating Profile Photos Dos and Don’ts: Examples for Your eH Cover Photo!

Choosing a really good cover photo for your online dating profile is absolutely at the top of the list when it comes to your success. Here are the types of photos that will work best. We realize we have pulled these from a stock photo gallery (kinda cheating!) — but the point here is just to give you […]

Dating Photos, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony

Four Grownup Ways to E-Flirt With Class

No matter your age, the way to connect with a man in the “I think you’re hot and would be interested in going out with you” way is to flirt. It’s as true online as in person; flirtation isn’t about being a tease, it’s about showing your interest and curiosity – and piquing his. When […]

40 and Single, Dating, Dating Tips For Women, Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony

Challenging the Ten Biggest Excuses to Not Try Online Dating

If you’re still hesitant to give online dating a try, you’ve likely used one of the following excuses. Here are the 10 biggest excuses to not try online dating — and our responses to them. 1. “I’d rather meet someone organically.” Wouldn’t everyone? Unfortunately, that’s not always reality. If you haven’t met someone organically, why not […]

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How Do I Move A New Online Relationship Offline?

Congratulations! You’ve met someone you’re interested in online, but now you’re perhaps a tad frustrated that your budding relationship is seeming more pen pal than love interest — which, of course, begs the question: How do I move a new online relationship offline? Do you find yourself writing someone or multiple someones online daily but […]

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Online Dating Profiles: How to Know Who is Relationship Ready

If you think that simply having posted an online dating profile means that someone is ready for a relationship, you’re wrong. When you begin your search for love online, your biggest challenge is to read between the lines to tell who’s really ready for a long-term relationship. Dating with Dignity has compiled a list of […]

Online Date Tips, Using eHarmony