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What Makes You Interesting?

People get testy when you talk about dating like a market. It tends to reduce love to a transaction, and that’s not good. But anywhere that people have choices there exists a kind of market. If you want someone to choose to spend time with you, you need to think about what makes you interesting. There is probably something about you that is interesting, but so many people misidentify what it is. Is it your job? Probably not, but maybe. Is it your hobby? Most likely, but not always. Is it your unique take on Seinfeld? Probably not, but maybe. The point is, you need to take yourself out for coffee with a yellow legal pad and think about what makes you interesting. THAT’s the stuff you need to bring up on a date. Don’t assume that your date is going to see what makes you brilliant, subtly bring it up!