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Not sure how to meet that alluring stranger? We’ve got pickup lines for just about any situation.

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‘Should I Date a Great Flirt?’

When it comes to communicating attraction and romantic interest, people generally think that you are either good at flirting or bad at it. The stereotypical “good flirt” is a man who easily picks up women, usually at a bar or club, or maybe a woman who can score free drinks from guys all night long. […]

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How to Flirt on Twitter

Twitter may not be eHarmony…but what do you do if your crush loves to tweet away? And so do you. Now what? Here’s how to flirt on Twitter: 1. Choose a cute avatar and write a clever, short bio. 2. Follow people strategically. If you want your crush to follow you on Twitter, you probably shouldn’t be following a slew […]

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New Year’s Pickup Lines

Dateless on New Year’s Eve? Don some festive attire and try a holiday-appropriate pickup line on that cute stranger at the New Year’s Party. For best results, use before midnight. New Year’s pickup lines: 1. Got anyone to kiss at midnight? 2. My New Year’s resolution is you. 3. Can I be your first mistake of the year? […]

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Pickup Lines for the Painfully Shy

Just because you’re painfully shy doesn’t mean you’re destined to loner-dom at friends’ parties or social events. To many, shyness is an endearing quality. Here are a few not-too-painful pickup lines for shy people: 1. Keep it simple and direct. Smile and introduce yourself. 2. Recruit a wingman/wingwoman. Have friends casually introduce you to their single friends […]

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Nine Holiday Pickup Lines

‘Tis the season to eat, drink and be merry — and flirt a little. Fun holiday pickup lines are hardly out of place in the season of cheesy Rudolph sweaters and polyester Santa hats. Grab two glasses of mulled wine — one to share, of course — and go talk to that cute stranger at your next holiday […]

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Pickup Lines for the Halloween Party

If you’re dateless for this year’s neighborhood Halloween bash, bring your best costume idea to life, prime your sweet tooth and get ready to mingle. Dressing in wacky attire might even give you that boost of courage to try one of the ghoulish day’s cheesiest pickup lines. Pickup lines for the Halloween party: 1. I’m trying […]

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Ten Pickup Lines for a Friend’s Wedding

If you find yourself at a friend’s wedding without a “plus one,” note that you’re likely not the only one. Another solo wedding guest might just be the dance partner of your dreams. Stay upbeat and pro-marriage — no bitterness or cynicism allowed — and be your charming self. You might even go home with […]

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pickup lines for the gym

Ten Pickup Lines for the Gym

You’re there to work out. Period. But should a cute stranger start pumping iron beside you three times a week, here are 10 pickup lines to help break the ice — and maybe score you a date on Friday night. 1. Volunteer to spot — or request a spotter. Keep things gym-related and offer to participate […]

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Ten Pickup Lines for the Dog Park

Just because you’re taking Buddy out for his daily walk — and your daily poop-scooping routine — doesn’t mean you can’t find love at the dog park. Here are 10 pickup lines should you encounter a cute stranger with a pooch of their own (please make no references, funny or not, to butt-sniffing.): 1. If your crush’s […]

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Ten Pickup Lines for Church

The primary purpose of attending church isn’t to pick up the cute parishioner in the next pew. That said, church is a place where you’re most likely to find someone who is spiritually compatible with you. Here are ten fun — and cheesy — pickup lines to use in the church lobby: 1. The classic: “Nice […]

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