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He’s Putting on the Brakes

According to NY psychologist Vivian Diller, “There are three common causes behind the guy who goes hot to cold:

1.) Sometimes guys fall in love with a fantasy of who a woman is, or they fall in love with being ‘in love.’ When reality hits, the fire dies down, they go cold.

2.) Sometimes men move things faster than they can handle. Turning cold is their way to slow things down.

3.) There are some guys who are just afraid of intimacy and commitment, so they can only stay hot for short periods of time. They may think they want a relationship, but when it comes to the effort it takes, they realize they don’t.

Take away advice? It’s not necessarily anything you have done — or can do — that changes a guy’s temperature. If a guy goes from hot to cold, you can find out why, but don’t blame yourself.”

Whose advice resonated most with you? Have you been through a similar situation?