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Reality Bites

“Men can become cold when the potential of the connection doesn’t match up with reality. So he goes away or cools off a bit after the first date. Hurt feelings come when one person may have visualized more of the relationship than the other, building it up to be farther along than it really was (i.e., thinking they are exclusive and thus consistent before anyone goes on a second date) and then thinking they are ‘owed’ an explanation or some sort of consistent behavior when it falls apart.”

Heather Setrakian, relationship researcher for eHarmony