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Dating Advice

These Readers Need Your Advice!

by eHarmony Staff

January 11, 2008

Let’s face it: it’s a brave new world out. Traditional male and female roles have gone out the window. The old dating rules seem obsolete. And new technology like eHarmony has only added a host of new conundrums to the equation.

That’s where YOU come in. By sharing your experiences and opinions with your fellow singles, you can impact someone’s search for love. That’s powerful! Your virtual support can make a real difference in someone’s life.

The single men and women below need advice. Your words could help steer them toward the right match! Click through and help a fellow eHarmony member get one step closer to finding love.

Moccic06 in New York writes:

“He’s just gotten out of a 5 year relationship and asked for things to move slowly. How long do I wait to see if he’s really ready to be in a relationship again?”

AmmyM in Oregon writes:

“Should I continue to talk to someone that I am not attracted to in hopes that I will become more attracted later?”

hoNikon in Ohio asks:

“Is it normal to talk to more than one match at a time?”

Lemon wonders:

“I am a little hesitant to talk to my young children about my new dating life and about bringing these men to meet my children. Any advice?”

Captain in Texas writes:

“I am away for 28 days at a time with only 14 days off. I am new member to Eharmony and fear that due to my career path I am doomed from the start. Honest feedback wanted.”

Saffron writes:

“Do I jump in and initiate first contact, or wait for the man to begin the process? I know historically women have been coached to be coy.”

Leo812 in California wonders:

“He criticizes my body. It’s to the point that I don’t feel comfortable in the bedroom with him. He says I’m being sensitive. Is it me??”

krm in Texas asks:

“I have asked a couple of women some questions and its been three weeks, just curious how long I should give them to respond?”

soloally1891 writes:

“My boyfriend has made it VERY clear that he WILL NOT marry again. On the other hand, I am old fashion and marriage to me is important.”

summerktgrl has questions:

“1) Ladies, do you ever request the initial communication with a match?

2) How long would you expect to communicate with someone prior to meeting?”