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bad dates

15 Ways to Recover from a Bad Date

We all go on dates with high hopes and good intentions. You expect the encounter to be fun, exciting, and maybe even a step toward something bigger down the line. But not all dates are created equal, and some don’t meet expectations. Maybe you and the other person just didn’t click. Maybe you were just super nervous […]

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Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Issues, Dating Tips, First Date Questions
strong women

How Strong and Successful Women Find Love Without Settling

She’s strong, powerful, successful, and driven. Sounds like I’m describing an amazing woman, right? Trouble is, when it comes to dating, the same traits that make you amazing in your career can fall flat in your love life. At some point in your life, you’ll encounter those who say you are intimidating, too independent, and don’t […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Dating Tips For Women
love over fear

5 Reasons to Choose Love over Fear

There are really only two human emotions: love and fear. All other emotions stem from those two basic emotions. Love is unconditional acceptance and the willingness to go beyond oneself for our own benefit (self-love) or the benefit of another. Fear is the absence of love, just as judgment is the withholding of love. Couples, […]

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About You, Commitment, Communication, Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Issues
15 reasons to date a political junkie

15 Reasons to Date a Political Junkie

Some people just can’t get enough of politics. They watch the Sunday morning interview shows. They monitor the latest polls. They’re fascinated by all the machinations and maneuvering. Whether you love politics or have little interest, you should take an interest in dating a political junkie. Here’s why: 1. You’ll never lack for things to discuss. […]

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Date Tips, Dating Advice, Seasonal
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15 Ways to Make Wise Dating Choices

The most wonderful relationships are the sum of many good decisions made over months, years, and decades. In Nicholas Sparks’ latest romantic cinematic journey, ‘The Choice’ (in theaters Feb.5), these issues are explored as a young couple deals with some heart wrenching decisions, and must face the question: How far would you go to keep […]

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Date Tips, Dating Tips, Important Questions, Important Questions About You
15 reasons to date an irish person

15 Ways to Make Sure You Are ‘Relationship Material’

Perhaps you’ve heard it said that the best way to attract a fabulous partner is to BE a fabulous partner. To take that principle a step further, if you want to attract someone who is magnificent “marriage material,” make sure that YOU are magnificent marriage material. Here’s how to know if this applies to you: 1. You […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice
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4 Ways to Handle Loneliness This Time of Year

While this time of year brings excitement and joy, it also typically brews sadness, loneliness, jealousy, disappointment, and anxiety. These feelings can become especially overwhelming as you reflect on your life circumstances and come to terms with being single. So, why does this season bring up difficult emotions, particularly loneliness? Holidays breed high expectations and anticipation as there […]

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About You, Being Single, Breaking Up, Date Tips, Expert Advice
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15 Ways to Deal with the Grinches in Your Life

In 1957, the incomparable Dr. Seuss unleashed one of his most memorable characters, the scowling, green-hued Grinch. This, of course, is the cranky guy who seeks to ruin Christmas and rob others of holiday joy. The term “grinch” went on to be applied not only to the Seussian character, but to all sorts of people who […]

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About You, Date Tips, Expert Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
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How to Survive Holiday Dating

Baby it’s cold outside! The holidays are here and the desire to couple up now is at an all-time high. After all it’s ‘cuffing’ season. As one who coaches singles on finding love online and as the proud dating coach of this adorable couple who just got married (who met on eHarmony), I can tell […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips, Dating Advice
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15 Ways to Overcome Hang-ups that Impede Lasting Love

Let’s start by agreeing that every person on earth has a hang-up or two. These are issues the dictionary defines as “a preoccupation, fixation, or psychological block; an impediment.” That last word should concern anyone who is single, since hang-ups can impede your search for love. These issues tend to be more complex and deeper […]

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About You, Being Single, Date Tips