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5 Steps to Setting an ‘Outrageous’ Intention for Love in 2015

by Jeannie Assimos - January 21, 2015

Today I’m going to share five tips that can make an enormous difference in helping you to attract your “One” this year.

You see, my own personal success in manifesting a great love happened when I set what I affectionately call an “outrageous intention” to be engaged by my 42nd birthday.

It was outrageous because I had no prospects in sight and a mere eight months to manifest this miracle (after trying for 20 years with no success).

So I put my rational mind aside—since I knew it would only tell me all the reasons love would never happen for me—and I began putting one foot in front of the other to consciously co-create the realization of that intention.

And lo and behold, in just a few months, what was once an outrageous intention became a bona fide reality, and the love I had yearned for all those years to no avail, seamlessly and beautifully arrived in my life, as if by magic.

So, as we step into the new year, I encourage you to take these same bold steps toward creating the life and love that you deserve.

These 5 steps for setting a powerful and outrageous intention for love this year are part of my proven Calling in ‘The One’ Process, and you can begin using them immediately!

Step 1: Speak your intention in the affirmative.
Declare your intention as what shall be so as opposed to what you don’t want any more of.

In other words, rather than saying, “No more emotionally abusive relationships!” you might instead say, “My intention is to create a deeply kind, inspired, and respectful relationship that offers safety and goodness to both of us.”

Step 2: Create an intention for love that is future-focused.
Your intention should be about what it is that you are creating in the future and not about the past.

So rather than saying, “My intention is to make amends to all of my former partners this year,” you might instead say, “This year, my intention is to have clear, clean, and integrous relationships with everyone I know, and to generate an unprecedented experience of a mutually empowering, ecstatically loving relationship with the partner of my dreams.”

Step 3: Make your intention for love potent and powerful!
Don’t be afraid to go for the gold on this one. Rather than playing it safe by setting an intention to simply find a new relationship, allow yourself to ante up by committing to the deepest and most inspiring intention you can imagine.

For example: “My intention is to magnetize into my life a relationship that is characterized by depth, devotion, intelligence, joy, humor, fun, inspiration, and a deep spiritual and soulful connection that feels timeless and eternal!”

Step 4: Share your intention for love with friends who can hold you accountable.
Studies show that when you set and hold intentions with a community of people who know and care about you, those intentions are six times more likely to manifest.

So seek out a close friend or a circle of friends you can confide in and who you can trust to make sure you stay on track as you work to become the person you know you must become to call this kind of love into your life.

Step 5: Let your intention be your North Star!
You must spend time with your intention each and every day, allowing it to be your guiding star in the choices you make and the actions you take, making sure to align how you are showing up in life to ensure the fulfillment of that intention.

Listen deeply to your own knowing daily, asking yourself questions such as: “What do I need to do to prepare myself to receive this love into my life?” “What choices do I need to be making to serve the fulfillment of my intention?” “Who do I need to be in order to receive my beloved into my life?”

As you set your intention to make 2015 the year you finally call in your soulmate, I want you to know that I’m offering a free seminar designed to help you identify any blocks you may have to love and liberate yourself from them once and for all, as well as to teach you the secrets of becoming truly magnetic to love. It’s called “Calling in The One: How to Identify and Release Your Hidden Barriers to Love and Become Magnetic to Your Soulmate” and you can register to join me here. Join us on Thursday, January 22nd 5:00 PM Pacific / 8:00 PM Eastern.

I can’t wait to be inspired by your outrageous and courageous intention for calling in the love you desire and deserve!


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