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For singles, personal growth is an important part of dating and building relationships. eHarmony brings you expert advice for your personal development.

break out of the comfort zone

15 Ways to Break Out of Your Comfort Zone

You’ve heard it said that we are creatures of habit. That’s not necessarily bad, if your habits help you to be effective at work, in health, and in relationships. But often our habits and routines keep us stuck in the proverbial “comfort zone.” The term refers to doing things the same way all the time, choosing […]

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About You, Being Single, Mind, Body And Spirit
stress relievers

6 Essential Tips for Managing Your Chronic Stress

Were you aware that chronic stress is linked to the six leading causes of health issues?  Heart disease, cancer, stroke, lower respiratory disease, and accidents. Chronic stress can affect your brain, raise your blood pressure, and reduces your immunity and ability to heal. At least 75% of doctor office visits are for stress-related complaints stemming […]

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About You, Mind, Body And Spirit
cookinup

Cookin’ Up Some Love with Chef Jason Wrobel

From familiar, everyday ingredients such as walnuts, watermelon, and asparagus to high-potency Chinese herbs like cistanche and cordyceps fungus, there are a variety of powerful options for you to effectively boost your libido and have a tasty time doing it. When it comes to incorporating these herbs and superfoods, I suggest adding them in gradually. […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Mind, Body And Spirit
how to stand up for yourself

15 Ways to Stand Up for Yourself

One of the most salient truths about relationships is this: You teach people how to treat you. This applies to dating, work, friendships, and every other kind of relationship. All of your communication, verbal and nonverbal, accrues to show another person how you expect to be treated. That’s why it’s crucial for you to stand […]

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About You, Mind, Body And Spirit
learn to relax

3 Ways to Relax Your Mind After a Stressful Day

You’ve been in overdrive all day — juggling logistics, people, project deadlines, and endless to-dos — or maybe putting out fires, squeezing in errands, finding lost toys, and making sure you’ve filled out all the forms for school tomorrow. All day, you eagerly anticipate finding just 30 minutes to chill out, catch up with your […]

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About You, Mind, Body And Spirit
online dating advice

5 Ways to Cope with Dating Frustrations

Once you set out to find your ideal match, the search can seem as if it’s taking forever. Impatience and frustration commonly occur once you immerse yourself in dating  — and finding love does not happen as quickly as it has for others. Love may seem within reach, but also far away. Going on a […]

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About You, Being Single, Dating Tips, Expert Advice, Online Date Tips
sorry ways to apologize

15 Things to Do When You’ve Said Something You Regret

Uh-oh. The words flew out of your mouth before your brain could process their potential impact. Maybe you made a sarcastic remark about your date’s new hairstyle … or criticized her parents … or attempted a joke that came across as a putdown. Sadly, there’s no rewind button for real life and no app to help […]

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About You, Communication
shakespeare love lessons

15 Things Shakespeare Can Teach Us About Love

Do you get excited to see the latest staging of a Shakespeare play…or were you excited to leave him behind when you left high school English class? Wherever you stand on Shakespeare—love, hate, indifferent—you know that he was one of the greatest writers to ever live. Not only did he pen nearly a million words, […]

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About You, Dating Advice, Seasonal
love over fear

5 Reasons to Choose Love over Fear

There are really only two human emotions: love and fear. All other emotions stem from those two basic emotions. Love is unconditional acceptance and the willingness to go beyond oneself for our own benefit (self-love) or the benefit of another. Fear is the absence of love, just as judgment is the withholding of love. Couples, […]

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About You, Commitment, Communication, Date Tips, Dating Advice, Dating Issues
love again

How One Word Helped Me to Believe in Love Again

For me, it all begins around my birthday. The anxiety that is. When September 16 appears on the calendar and I realize I’ve gone yet another year without having a relationship—meaning I’ll (likely) be spending another birthday, Halloween, Thanksgiving, Christmas, and New Year’s all by my lonesome—I start to get panicky. It’s not that I […]

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About You, Being Single