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In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

In Between Relationships; 10 Antidotes to Loneliness

Desperately lonely but not quite ready for another relationship? Here are 10 things to do.

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How to Leave Your Past Behind — and Find New Love

2014 is here and there is no better time to leave your past behind to achieve a healthier, happier relationship now and in the future. When it comes to relationships, the past can feel so heavy. Holding onto old hurts can actually cause physical stress, sore muscles, body aches, as well as fatigue and sadness. Take a minute and […]

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Five Keys to Love and Longevity

Some of my most basic rules to living a good long life have everything to do with relationships. We are, after all, social creatures that crave companionship. It’s a well-documented fact, for instance, that married people just live longer than their single counterparts. And it turns out that love and longevity have a lot in […]

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Valuable Lessons from ‘The Secret Life of Walter Mitty’

Spoiler alert: this article reveals some important things that happen in the movie. I believe this movie has a chance to be a long-term classic. It will become a classic if people figure out what the movie is really about. I feel that the purpose of ‘The Secret Life of Walter Mitty’ is not to […]

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Five Steps to Finding Love in the New Year

A new year is approaching and we have an opportunity to reflect on 2013 and set intentions for the life we hope to create in the present and future. The symbolism of closing this year offers us the chance to greet 2014 with optimism, hope, gratitude and the opening for love and beyond. It might feel […]

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Six Gifts Only You Can Give Yourself

‘Tis the season for gift-giving, and you don’t have to be a kid to get excited about opening presents and watching loved ones do the same. As gratifying as it is to give gifts and receive them, there are some gifts you can only give yourself. Which doesn’t mean a shopping spree so you can […]

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The Biggest Reasons You May Not Have Found ‘The One’ Yet

Have friends wondered why you are still single? Is it the default question your mother turns to when you’re on the phone with her? And more importantly, are you scratching your head as to why you are not in a relationship? Is it possible that you have some hidden blocks that are keeping you unattached? […]

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Elizabeth Gilbert: What I’ve Learned About Love

After a difficult divorce and an unsatisfactory rebound relationship, Elizabeth Gilbert took a break from her everyday life and went on a journey to Italy, India and Bali, to recapture joy, and find spirituality and balance. Her quest became the basis of her best-selling memoir Eat, Pray, Love. She also found love along the way, […]

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20 Things to be Thankful For

‘Tis the season to be thankful. Not sure where to begin? Here are 20 things to appreciate this year.

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Single & Thankful: Why Gratitude is a Game-Changer for Those Seeking Love

Meister Eckhardt wrote, “If the only prayer you ever say in your entire life is thank you, it will be enough.” It’s true that a life characterized by genuine gratitude brings so many benefits to the thankful person—emotional health, inner peace, stronger relationships, and less anxiety. What’s more, most singles know that a spirit of […]

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