Charles and I were matched in December 2006.  We were both exploring other matches at the time but were casually going through the steps for communication with each other.  The other matches we were pursuing didn't work but we were still talking via eHarmony.  In January I gave him my cell number and he called on my daughter’s birthday, after her party.  We began dating the next weekend.  We took it very slow at first but something was just there. 

In May he was almost killed in a car wreck coming to pick us (my daughter and I) up for a movie and dinner.  He was doing better in no time and he decided that was his "cue" to follow his heart.  My heart was already there and waiting.  After everything was settled and back on track he proposed and we were married in November.  Now, the adoption of my daughter to be his as well will be final.  So, thank you eHarmony for the assistance. Your process really works!