Rodney and Judy
When we met it was like old friends being reunited. We had so much in common: our heritage, lifestyle, family dynamics. It feels like we have known each other forever. In a way we have. Both of us had spouses who passed away about 2 years ago. Our lives started over at that point and neither one of us was a whole person until we married. In this new life, we are all that accomplishes that goal for each other.
We learned from this experience to be very specific about the person we were looking for. Over a period of time it becomes tempting to settle for someone who comes close and has the potential to be who you are longing for. The person meeting your exact needs is out there and can be found if you have the patience to contact all your matches and not settle for less than what you want. eHarmony matched us perfectly. After dating others up to 750 miles away, we found each other only 80 miles apart.