I had been on eHarmony for about a year prior to meeting James. I was having difficulty finding the right guy, so I had thought about "taking a break" from eHarmony.  But, a good friend of mine had recently gotten engaged to her soul mate, who she met on eHarmony, so I decided not to give up.  James and I were matched on September 6, 2005.  It didn't take us long to realize that we were soul mates.  We went to my friend Misty's wedding (who met her husband, Paul, through eHarmony) on November 5, 2005.  I caught the bridal bouqet at the wedding.  We became engaged on April 15, 2006 and were married on April 14, 2007.  We are very thankful to eHarmony for matching us up. As it turned out, James and I only lived 5 miles apart from one another.  Thank you eHarmony!!!