When I first received the match with Jurgen he had very little information about himself, but what was there struck a chord inside of me. I immediately sent the first stage of contact but didn't hear back from him. Day after day I check and no reply. He hadn't closed contact so I thought "Well, it's near the Christmas holidays, he has probably gone away.” I decided to keep the connection open for 2 weeks from the initial match date. Sure enough 10 days later, we zoomed through the 5 stage process the first day of contact and met for a walk and a coffee the next day.

We talked for the entire 2 hours we were together. It turned out we lived 15 minutes apart, I had my business in his neighborhood for 6 years yet we had no connections that would have brought us together. Our match was truly magical. We had found our soul mates! Along with finding my soul mate I have been embraced by his 3 wonderful children and 8 grandchildren (9th is on the way). I didn't just find the love of my life, I found a family!

As far as how other sites compare all I can say is there is NO comparison. Other sites match you according to interests and outward conditions first; eHarmony matched us to what we are on the inside first. Of course the other levels of connection are key as well and we know we are very fortunate to share so many interests and so much chemistry too. It was the best investment and chance either of us has ever taken. Thank you for coming into our lives and helping us find each other.