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Meet eHarmony member #5941103265 A Single Man in Santa Barbara, CA 46 / Own Business

Never Once a week I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 5'11"
  • State: California
  • City: Santa Barbara
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Education: Doctorate
  • University: middlebury college

Santa Barbara, CA Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Santa Barbara, looking for a great girl. I have a Doctorate Degree from middlebury college. I'm 5'11". I don't have any kids.

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More about me

I typically spend my leisure time

Acting, reading, exercising,.. although get me to a hot tub and I am sooo happy. I have lots of interests but what I gravitate towards most is learning,..about our culture and others, politics, people our place in this world, universe,..these insane times we live and how one might live in them. I am a voracious reader,..I have 1000s of books. I am a bit of an intensity junky whether it be physical- like yoga, emotional- acting, or ideas- I am working on a dissertation,..so I often choose these activities over just hanging out.

The most influential person in my life has been

I would love to connect with a women who enjoys her independence and who is not afraid to speak her mind nor act impulsively. Someone who is open-minded, mature, intelligent, fit, sexy and somewhat irreverent. The more eccentric and curious about life in all its diversity the better- as long as she knows how to come back to earth occasionally. A genuine interest or participation in the arts and at least a general awareness of world politiics is definitely appealing. Chemistry is most important so if anything I said sparks an interest please drop me a note and we can take it from there.

The first thing people notice about me

I seem calm,... and relaxed but something is bubbling underneath.

The last book I read and enjoyed

The Time Falling Bodies Take to Light by William Irwin Thompson,.. its about the mythic, sexual and psychological origins of Western Culture

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. My parents and brother
  2. A few close friends
  3. An opportunity to pursue my interests

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

That I am very sensitive,...and thoughtful. I probably come across reserved at first- I am not a closed book just a slow read but I quickly warm up to any chemistry that might be stirring and then my more provocative and engaging side gets the best of me and hopefully u. I love intimacy- all forms, long for it in fact,..connecting in a spontaneous moment or just in the silence.

Friends Describe me as

Caring, Intelligent, Romantic, Spiritual

A little more about me

Kindness is a total aphrodisiac. Addendum- The picture thing,...If you dont have a pick or choose not to reveal it,.. please know that for me,.. even though appearance doesnt capture all of ones qualities it is a very important aspect of being attracted to another,.. so please be willing to make your photo available if we are going to cooorespond. Thanks

Sports I enjoy playing

Hiking, Kayaking, Running, Swimming

Sports I enjoy watching

Hockey, Other, Swimming