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Meet eHarmony member #5407475280 A Single Man in Bensenville, IL 40 / Grad Student/Intern

Never Few times a week I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 6'0"
  • State: Illinois
  • City: Bensenville
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Education: Bachelors
  • Religion: Christian

Bensenville, IL Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Bensenville, looking for a great girl. I have a Bachelors Degree. I'm 6'0". I don't have any kids, and when it comes to religion, I'm Christian.

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More about me

The one thing I am passionate about...

My faith in Christ, having fun with friends & family, theatre (I'm a former NYC actor), Goose Island beverages, my Iowa Hawkeyes, NationalReviewOnline & eating breakfast any time of day. mmmm...pancakes~

I typically spend my leisure time

sports, computer, reading, working out, driving around aimlessly singing really loud, hanging with friends

The most influential person in my life has been

Someone who loves deeply: friends, outcasts, herself & God (I'd like to be up there pretty high at some point as well!)

The first thing people notice about me

My sense of humour.

The last book I read and enjoyed

Surrender to Love, by David Benner. It's been very impacting. It has helped me in my journey towards moving my understanding of Jesus' love for me from my head to my heart through surrender, as opposed to the typical Christian platitudes: "Pray more", "Read your Bible more", do,strive, etc. No, it's through surrendering - resting - in His love that true transformation takes place.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. Living a life of purpose
  2. That I'm loved by people I love.
  3. That the future is bright, even when it seems dim.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

That I'm interested in hearing their story.

Friends Describe me as

Creative, Funny, Happy, Spiritual

A little more about me

Who knows where God will lead, but I'm currently in seminary and working towards living out that call in my life.