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Meet eHarmony member #535456230 A Single Man in Oakdale, MN 31 / Software Consultant

Never On special occasion I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 6'0"
  • State: Minnesota
  • City: Oakdale
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Education: Associates

Oakdale, MN Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Oakdale, looking for a great girl. I have an Associates Degree . I'm 6'0". I don't have any kids.

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The one thing I am passionate about...

I've spent my first 30 years passionate about travel, career, and conventional definitions of success. I've achieved almost everything I ever dreamed with all that, now I'd just like to turn my passion towards creating a smiling family, a warm home filled with people I can trust and depend on.I used to be very passionate about guitar and drums, music in general, and also skateboarding. I've loved adrenaline: sky diving, racing motorcycles and cars, sports, etc. To be honest, these passions are becoming simply occasional hobbies as I turn my intense focus towards creating family and love.

I typically spend my leisure time

Anything but mindless TV. I like reading, keeping in touch with friends, walking out to see the sunset every night. As my more physically intense passions have become lesser hobbies, I've discovered a lot of more "nerdy" things I never paid attention to in my early 20s. I play video games with a lot of my guy friends and sometimes we have couples night where we just play board games. We usually laugh our asses off, it's great.

The most influential person in my life has been

Honesty. Monogamy. Views sex as important and special, not a hobby. Sounds lame, I know, but this is one of the few ways I'm really old-fashioned and I've learned the hard way that I really need a girl who feels the same.

The first thing people notice about me

Not sure I'm qualified to answer this, hah. But it seems my teeth/eyes followed by my braininess.

The last book I read and enjoyed

Zen and The Art of Motorcycle Maintenance.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. Health
  2. Trustworthy Friends
  3. A ridiculous list of amazing experiences and lucky opportunities life has given me so far.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

I care deeply about everyone around me, and am willing to make sacrifices for people. It's just not always socially acceptable to say that to people unfortunately.Also I AM a very emotional person! People see me as a stone facade of calculation and sheer logic, void of subjectivity or caring... You can be logical and analytical and still care a great deal!

Friends Describe me as

Dependable, Funny, Genuine, Intelligent

A little more about me

I'm serious about finding a woman to love and grow a bright, smiling, warm family with.I've learned that most important in finding a partner is that we agree on monogamy, sex, and drugs. I'm intensely monogamous, I don't so much as flirt with others while committed to somebody. I look at sex as a serious, valuable, special thing for showing intimacy and caring to somebody, and I don't view it as a hobby to share around like a card game with friends. I've never done a drug in my life, I've watched it tear good people apart, and I'll never bring that risk into the badass family I intend to build.I REALLY need a woman who shares my values

I am
Impossible to Label

What I like to read

Fantasy & Science Fiction, Nonfiction, Philosophy

Books I've read

lying by sam harris, 4 hour workweek, lying by sam harris

Music I like to perform

Metal, Punk and Hardcore

Movies I like to Watch

Drama, Educational, Science Fiction

Favorite Movies to Watch

despicable me, love actually, guardians of the galaxy. we are groot.