The one thing I am passionate about...
Travel.I want to see the beauty/meet the people in this world. I can't imagine not wanting to see/experience as much as possible. Having goals & building a business/finances to be able to enjoy life and be financially secure. Being a good person and having morals no matter what others do to me. Finding a partner that I really love physically/emotionally/respect that feels EQUALLY back. I think its gives a constant bliss. Having your best friend/cheerleader beside you, what can life throw at you that you can't handle together? Its difficult finding right mix of physical, emotional, goals, morals.
I typically spend my leisure time
I try to travel as much as possible. My mind never really rests, always thinking. I work on my house. I have an innate need for my surroundings to be nice, but its FOR me-not to show off. I like simple things to relax. I'm lucky, my backyard I created really feels like your in a Mexican resort and is a great escape. Its where all my friends and family enjoy coming with their family, & I love visiting/laughing. It is great just sitting outside by the pool watching T.V. & just enjoying the warm summer evenings/nights & the sunsets/reading or floating at night on a big air mattress watching stars.
The most influential person in my life has been
Someone that have chemistry with, but for them HONESTLY care/respect me. I want to have a partner who believes in me & can see that I'm a good person inside & will be my biggest cheerleader same as I am for him. There is enough ugliness out there, who wants to come home to be put down? I'll never understand how "it" gets so lost. People put more effort into being polite speaking to a stranger than with the person they are suppose to love the most. Why? Too often you hear husband/wives putting the other down. How is it right & not extremely hurtful to have the person that is suppose to love you talk bad about you and disrespect you?
The first thing people notice about me
That I'm very easy to talk to, & I can talk to anybody and have a lot of knowledge. I guess basically that I am very social, very open, genuinely nice & intelligent, and I have morals, standards, and a code of conduct and what is right and wrong.
The last book I read and enjoyed
I love to read when I ever have time and can find a book that I'm interested in. The last book I read was "The Memory Keepers Daughter". It was OK. Just something half decent to read. When I do find a book I enjoy, it is nice, & I hate for it to end just like a really good movie. It just takes longer. I do read books, and I really do enjoy it when I DO find a good book that interests me, but I'm not a crazy-books piled everywhere reader.
The three things which I am most thankful for
- Having such a wonderful group of family/friends that are very nice, genuine people. I do not use the word friend/family/love lightly. I believe all of those words are earned and come with huge responsibility to the other person. I never have issues/strife of any kind with my family/friends.
- The life I do have and the opportunity that is out in the world, if your willing to do whats right & work hard for it you will be blessed. I am also thankful that I do understand that no one owes me anything and no one has to give me anything. I have to work for what I want and thats OK. It helps me to be goal oriented.
- Thank-ful that their is a world out there with beautiful places and people, and I want to explore so much of it.
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
With men, often I feel like they don't really bother to get to know me. They talk to me, but I don't think they really are listening or really care what I have to say. If their interested in the looks, they really don't care past that. I don't use the word friend very often, & I don't count very many men as being friends, because I get that feeling that they really wouldn't offer out helping me, if it wasn't for the looks or the chance they might get...its just they aren't there because they like the person I am inside. They don't even know who that person is or care.
Friends Describe me as
Genuine, Intelligent, Sweet, Warm
A little more about me
I stay pretty busy working/trying to get caught up. Trying to get more tech. Everyone wants to put a picture with a face. I'll get one uploaded when I figure out how. I've never been to a chat room or tried anything like this, but I don't think the person I'm looking for is found in a bar. I think everyone does have a physical image of what they find attractive. I want that also. Attraction is important, but I'm serious in also finding someone that I can really connect with & is on the same page. I am 5'7, 122, blond w/blue eyes, keep in shape, good-build, & it feels funny to say, but most find me attractive.