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Meet eHarmony member #4761746615 A Single Man in Bessemer, AL 50 / IT Director

Few times a week Never I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 5'10"
  • State: Alabama
  • City: Bessemer
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Education: Bachelors
  • Religion: Christian

Bessemer, AL Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Bessemer, looking for a great girl. I have a Bachelors Degree. I'm 5'10". I don't have any kids, and when it comes to religion, I'm Christian.

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The one thing I am passionate about...

I guess there are a few things that I feel passionate about. Number one on the list would be my niece and nephews. Skylar is 5, Grayson is 6, Cruz is 2 and Henry is 1. I find that when I run out of things to do at work that my thoughts almost always turn to wandering what the kids are up to. This passion is probably not contained to just the kids. I am blessed with a close family with whom I spend a lot of time. The kids are like sponges soaking up information constantly. As they get older I enjoy the challenge of coming up with new and interesting ways of making learning fun for them. It's not so much what you say as it is what you do!

I typically spend my leisure time

I have always enjoyed reading, spending time with my niece and nephews, and watching college football but more recently I have adopted a new hobby. About a year ago a friend introduced me to what she called "Thrifting". This involves visiting Thrift Stores and Yard Sales on weekends looking for deals on designer clothing and gadgets then listing them on eBay for resale. It's a lot like a treasure hunt. I love it! If anybody would have told me a year ago that I would be excited about selling a pair of woman's designer jeans on eBay I would have said "Your Crazy!". The fact is it's not only fun but the extra $$ is great too!

The most influential person in my life has been

I want the chemistry that comes with physical attraction. Other than this, it's important that my match have a strong enough personality to argue with me. Now don't misunderstand I am not looking for somebody to fight. I just enjoy passionate conversation with intelligent and opinionated people.

The first thing people notice about me

Probably my accent. I have a pretty thick 'Mark Twain' southern accent.

The last book I read and enjoyed

'Love Among the Chickens' by PG Wodehouse. It was about three people who knew nothing about raising chickens opening a chicken farm in England at the end of the 19th century. I am not a big Wodehouse fan but I do enjoy his characters. In particular I enjoyed the folly his main character, Mr. Jeremy Garnet, experienced to capture the love of a woman.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. I am blessed with a family that is loving, supportive and sometimes painfully honest with each other.
  2. Although I have no children of my own, I am very lucky to have three nephews and one niece.
  3. I work for an organzation that provides shelter and help for the homeless and addicted.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

I have no earthly idea but I'll think about this one!

Friends Describe me as

Funny, Hard Working, Intelligent, Optimistic

A little more about me

Hmmm, none that I can think of now. I'll get back to this if I think of anything.