The one thing I am passionate about...
I am passionate about anything that I can share with someone that I love. I enjoy being surrounded by people that I can love unconditionally and people who I know love me. I am passionate about helping people or animals who are victimized and unable to help themselves. I am passionate about creating and maintaining harmony, though I sometimes need help maintaining my own harmony when overwhelmed with stress. I know how difficult it can be to maintain peace of mind when dealing with trauma alone, so I do whatever I can to help those suffering from trauma. In short, I am passionate about creating a perfect world even if it is impossible.
I typically spend my leisure time
School takes up a great deal of my time, but I am about to devote all of my free time to making a reconnection with my family. We were pushed apart by tumultuous times and only recently have I begun to regret being away from them for so long and hope that my grandparents live at least another 10-20 years so that we can make up lost time. In short, I am about to make drastic changes in the way I spend my leisure time.
The most influential person in my life has been
The ability to unconditionally love. There are some mistakes that are unforgivable, but I want to know should I disappoint my partner she will make every effort to forgive me and learn to love my weaknesses as much as she loves my strengths. My loyalty is unswerving, so I would never cheat, but I do tend to take on too much in life and have been known to "run away" for short stretches of time if I feel the stress is effecting me physically. But I'm always back to pick up where I left off. I like to say that I have to do things in my own time or not at all.
The first thing people notice about me
I am very quick to try and connect with people, especially if they seem uneasy, and then do everything in my power to put them at ease and make them feel welcome. However, if someone comes at me with a bad attitude, I tend to respond in kind. If I read that they are being negative because they are hurt or scared, I generally try to calm them down. Abuse or misuse of authority is the only thing that makes me truly irreversibly angry. I treat adults who would treat others as inferior as if they do not exist and give no credibility to anything that they say.
The last book I read and enjoyed
I love anything that provokes thought and am a fan of fantasy and science fiction.
The three things which I am most thankful for
- My Family
- The Ability to Understand and Relate
- My Drive to Create a Better World
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
People tend to see me as extremely stable, calm, and without fear. I am anything but. I maintain a certain sense of character to try and offer these things to everyone around me. However, I have been alone for many years now and am beginning to think there is nobody in the world for me and I have a great desire for human connection. Loneliness is a painful condition to endure and it has been a constant companion to me throughout my years as a young adult. Many have told me I missed out on the opportunity to connect with compatible women because my nature makes me seem aloof and above the normal troubles of the world, but I'm not.
Friends Describe me as
Creative, Intelligent, Perceptive, Physically Fit
A little more about me
I am looking for a relationship of the sort where both members truly seek to be one. It is important that independence is maintained, but the goals and dreams of both involved can be strengthened 10 fold with the unconditional love and support of their partner.