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Meet eHarmony member #3306417732 A Single Woman in Bakersfield, CA 41 / Database developer/administrator

Never Once a week I have kids


  • Gender: Female
  • Height: 5'3"
  • State: California
  • City: Bakersfield
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I have kids
  • Pets: Dogs
  • Education: Bachelors

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Hi, I'm a White woman, living in Bakersfield, looking for a great guy. I have a Bachelors Degree. I'm 5'3". I have kids.

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More about me

The one thing I am passionate about...

I am passionate about knowledge. I love learning new things, I LOVE researching things/ideas/conspiracies. Don't worry, I don't necessarily believe all of the conspiracy theories, but I do find them interesting to read about.

I typically spend my leisure time

I enjoy reading a good book, listening to music, or watching football. It is my goal to attend a regular season NFL game in the next football season. Unfortunately I know it most likely will not be to see my team since they are in New York, which is OK since the quarterback usually isn't good until the post season :)

The first thing people notice about me

The first thing people notice about me is that I am quiet. This has often been mistaken as "snobby", but I can assure you that is not me. The quietness goes away once I get comfortable in my surroundings, it also seems to be lessening with age.

The last book I read and enjoyed

It has been a few years since I have read anything besides parenting books, or books for work. I think the last book(s) I have read was, I am embarassed to admit this, The Twilight Saga. They were very easy reading but I enjoyed the story. Before that was Pillars of the Earth, I had to mention a second book to restore my dignity after admitting to Twilight :)

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. I am most thankful for my daughter, she is amazing. Being a single mom can be difficult at times, but she is worth it.
  2. My career, I made a lot of sacrifices in my life to get to where I am now. I finally work with great people doing something I am really good at. I look back at all of the years I spent working and going to school to get to where I am at now. There were a lot of really bad years, working in a horrible environment, no time for a social life, just work and school. Looking back. it was all worth it to get where I am now, and I would do it again.

Friends Describe me as

Easy-Going, Intelligent, Modest, Perceptive

I am
Somewhat Liberal

Sports I enjoy watching


Music I like to listen to

tool, billie holiday, eminem, james blunt, korn

Movies I like to Watch

Drama, Educational

TV I like to Watch

Crime Drama, Drama, Other

My Favorite TV Shows

shameless, dexter, true blood (can't decide between comedy or drama)