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Meet eHarmony member #3287623935 A Single Woman in Oakland, CA 32 / work part time and go to school full time

Daily On special occasion I don't have kids


  • Gender: Female
  • Height: 5'4"
  • State: California
  • City: Oakland
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Pets: Cats, Dogs, Fish, Horses
  • Education: Some college
  • Religion: Christian

Oakland, CA Singles

Hi, I'm a woman, living in Oakland, looking for a great guy. I completed some college. I'm 5'4". I don't have any kids, and when it comes to religion, I'm Christian.

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More about me

The one thing I am passionate about...

Debate is debate is debate is debate :) I love debating.. not arguing mind you, but debating. I am on a team at school and I compete on a regular basis.

I typically spend my leisure time

Well, I don't usually do much. Because I work and go to school most of my time is spent either resting (which could consist of relaxing and watching a movie, or actually sleeping), or studying. If I'm not doing either of those I am at a debate tournament.

The most influential person in my life has been

The most important quality? There has to be a combination of qualities to create a good balance in my opinion. I would ideally like to meet someone who has a nice personality, who is intelligent, and who is ambitious and motivated. Also, I think there should be a sensitive side I can count on to be there as my partner, that I would of course reciprocate.

The first thing people notice about me

My energy and my intelligence.

The last book I read and enjoyed

The Lucifer Effect by Philip Zimbardo. Even though this was a book for class, I like it because it showed the animalistic, predatory nature of man. People often like to believe that they would act a certain way in hypothetical situations. I think it is interesting to see what would actually happen if the situation we to actually occur.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. For my Mother. She has always supported me, and has always allowed me to live my life. I can only hope that one day I can be to my future children what she is to me.
  2. My opportunities in school. I love learning, and the experience I get in the debate world. Communication and education is very important to me, and I enjoy every stressful midterm and final exam on the way to my final goal :)
  3. My friends. I think that in life, love is important and just like most successful relationships are built on friendships, I would be unwise to not be grateful for my close friends who have always been loyal to me.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

Probably the fact that I am more conservative than I come off. Although I am pretty laid back, I am more old fashioned in some of my beliefs than most people would realize. For example, while being very proud of my independence I still believe in gender roles. Not to say I want anyone to do everything for me or control my every move for that matter. However, I do believe that a man and a woman are both supposed to play certain parts in a relationship to make it work.

Friends Describe me as

Articulate, Dependable, Genuine, Passionate

A little more about me

I cannot think of anything right now, but feel free to contact me. I also have windows live instant messenger and my screen name is jh.getting.okane so if you want to ask me anything you can :)

I am
Centrist/Middle of the Road

What I like to read

Literature & Fiction

Books I've read

sisters & lovers, memoirs of a geisha, song yet sung

Sports I enjoy playing


Sports I enjoy watching


Music I like to listen to

lauryn hill, jill scott, mary j. blige, papa roach, green day

Music I like to perform

Blues, R&B and Soul

Movies I like to Watch

Educational, Soap Opera

Favorite Movies to Watch

horror/scary/thriller, rush hour 3, romance & drama & action

TV I like to Watch

Crime Drama, Science Fiction, True Crime

My Favorite TV Shows

all law & orders, the first 48, true blood