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Meet eHarmony member #3016029022 A Single Woman in Valencia, CA 53 / Small business owner and Freelance Writer

Never Once a week I have kids


  • Gender: Female
  • Height: 5'4"
  • State: California
  • City: Valencia
  • Marital Status: Divorced
  • Has Kids: I have kids
  • Pets: Cats, Dogs, Exotic pets, Horses, Other
  • Education: Some college
  • Religion: Christian

Valencia, CA Singles

Hi, I'm a Black woman, living in Valencia, looking for a great guy. I completed some college. I'm 5'4". I have kids, and when it comes to religion, I'm Christian.

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The one thing I am passionate about...

I'm passionate about my lingerie company and keeping the design ideas fresh. I also love to write ad copy for consumer products, and writing screenplays. My most important past time is cruising annually with my family. I would love to visit many baseball fields around the country and even Japan. I am not so crazy about cooking - I reserve that for people who love it. I do enjoy dining out at great restaurants or quaint hole in the wall places that have terrific food. You can't beat a great movie as they are few and far between. I'm passionate mostly about proving stability and support for my kids so they can live healthy, happy lives.

I typically spend my leisure time

Walks and talks with someone special to get to know their feelings, thoughts, hopes, and dreams. Going out to a nice restaurant and taking in a great movie. I love road trips and Dodger games. I've been wanting to take either salsa or ballroom dance lessons, but I would really prefer to do this with a great partner who feels the same - for now youtube salsa lessons work.

The most influential person in my life has been

Honesty has everything else beat. If you don't have that nothing else matters. Being honest is not just not telling lies, but also being truthful in things that shouldn't be left unsaid. It is always better to tell the truth than to hide a dreaded secret, or even a small secret that should not matter any way. Once we have honesty in the bag you find trust and than intimacy builds.

The first thing people notice about me

My caring nature. I have a love for life and living, but I often am moved by those hurting or in need. I will always lend a hand and do all that I can for others.

The last book I read and enjoyed

Man's Search For Meaning by Viktor E. Frankl...this book was recommended by a friend. Not sure that I agree with everything in this book but I did take away some great quotes about life and love. Also I learned that silent acceptance of what is, as someone once told me, definitely is a relative and subjective statement. Frankl was big on understanding life's nuances but also being considerate to others thoughts and feelings as well, even more over your own.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. My family. My Mother is a rock and my kids are a blessing.
  2. My friends. I don't have a lot but the close few I have mean the world to me and my life is better with them in it.
  3. My talent. As a lingerie designer I can create beauty to wear. As a writer I can create beautiful things to read.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

I do everything from a deep place inside my heart. This is also my personal brand slogan that I wrote and adhere to for my company.

Friends Describe me as

Affectionate, Creative, Intelligent, Thoughtful

A little more about me

Time is a perishable commodity. I know that if you are looking for a love or a "feeling" that you once had and won't settle until you find it, you will be looking for a long time. I'm not saying that you should, or that I will ever settle for less, but finding something that once was shouldn't be the quest, I don't believe. Consider this. If something is long gone and everyone is different, along with the changing times, maybe enjoy the journey of finding a new feeling that fulfills you even more (reality) or spend your life reveling in something you lost and will never get back (fantasy).I'm here, when you are ready

I am
Centrist/Middle of the Road

What I like to read

Other, Religion and Spirituality, Self-Help / Self-Improvement

Books I've read

anything max lucado, it's not how good you are it's how good you want to be, any good screenplay

Sports I enjoy playing


Sports I enjoy watching

Auto Racing, Baseball, Football, Gymnastics, Tennis

Movies I like to Watch

Comedy, Drama, Soap Opera

Favorite Movies to Watch

amalee, cinema paradiso, remember the titans

TV I like to Watch

Drama, Other