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Meet eHarmony member #2984911625 A Single Man in Normal, IL 42 / Systems Analyst

Socially Few times a week I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 6'3"
  • State: Illinois
  • City: Normal
  • Marital Status: Divorced
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Pets: Cats, Dogs, Rodents (Gerbils, Guinea, Etc.)
  • Education: Bachelors

Normal, IL Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Normal, looking for a great girl. I have a Bachelors Degree. I'm 6'3". I don't have any kids.

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More about me

The one thing I am passionate about...

I'm passionate about spending time with my children...doing what ever it is that they want (watching shows, movies, playing games, going to the park, going out to eat). On my own time / time with friends, I love most playing computer games, reading, watching movies, and going out.

I typically spend my leisure time

I most enjoy playing games, reading, and watching movies.

The most influential person in my life has been

I'm looking for a person who is caring, open, and honest. Someone who isn't up for playing games, but still knows how to have fun. A person that is ready for a commitment with a life long partner.

The first thing people notice about me

Most likely, people notice that I'm usually trying to make them laugh. I've always thought that you generally have two options: laughter, or crying. I prefer laughter (but I'm still not opposed to crying). :D

The last book I read and enjoyed

"Swan Song" by Robert R. McCammon. It's not necessarily the last book that I read and also enjoyed, but I'd have to say one of my most favorite of all time that I read within just the last year. It's a tale about the end of the world (for the most part) and about the people that continue on after so much is lost. Many of those people are terribly scarred, yet despite that and all the horrors they have faced, they manage to hold onto their humanity and show extraordinary inner beauty. Just a great book.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. I am most thankful for my children, and their happiness and continued health. They are such an important part of my life, that I couldn't imagine life without them.
  2. I am very thankful for my close friends and family. Being able to spend time with them and talk about issues as well as success is important to me.
  3. I am thankful for my personality and the way I was raised. I think it's made me the man, friend, and father that I am today. I couldn't imagine being a different person.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

I'd like people to notice that while I try to have fun and be witty, that I have a serious and sensitive side as well.

Friends Describe me as

Creative, Easy-Going, Funny, Genuine

A little more about me

Let's see..I'd rather laugh than cry, although I've done my fair share of crying over the years (and I'm not afraid to admit it). I am a good man despite having faults, I try to acknowledge them and move on. I'm looking for someone who can help complete me and be compatible in every way: mental, spiritual, physical.

I am
Centrist/Middle of the Road

What I like to read

Contemporary Literature & Fiction, Fantasy & Science Fiction

Music I like to listen to

nine inch nails, marilyn manson, type o negative, kmfdm, marilyn manson, type o negative, lacuna coil, garbage

Movies I like to Watch

Educational, Science, Science Fiction

Favorite Movies to Watch

the dark knight, batman begins, the hangover, zack and miri make a porno, star wars 4, 5, 6 & the lord of the rings trilogy

TV I like to Watch

Animation, Comedy, Science Fiction

My Favorite TV Shows

family guy, american dad, the venture brothers, the oblongs, x files, fringe (just started watching it but i like it), the justice league, the various batman cartoons