The one thing I am passionate about...
I am a musician and I love writing songs. My main passion is my child. It is extremely important to me that he grows up with stability and in a positive, happy environment. He is a sponge and is always watching me. My behavior will become his behavior so I try to be a gentleman and treat people with respect. I love making people laugh and I have most of my life. You can't be in a bad or sad mood when your laughing. I believe in loyalty, faithfullness, honesty, and integrity. I am a pretty confident person and that helps me be successful.I always say "tough times don't last, tough people do"
I typically spend my leisure time
Playing with my son, conversation with a close friend, playing music, working out, riding my motorcycle. I prefer hanging out with friends and playing a board game to going to a club or bar. It's just not my thing. I tend to have a handful of close friends rather than a lot of not so close friends.
The most influential person in my life has been
Most important huh? Once again, it's hard to put just one thing. Okay, here's a list of qualities that are important to me. Loyalty, faithfulness, honesty, good communicator, loving, caring, good mother, funny, appreciative, someone that prioritizes their family over their friends.
The first thing people notice about me
A lot of times people notice how I interact with my son. Especially girls. The greatest compliment I ever got was from a girl I met at my bank. She once said to me " seeing the way you are with your son makes me want to be a better mother". This coming from a person that is an amazing mother. I'll never forget that comment.
The last book I read and enjoyed
The 7 habits of highly effective people- The book is about life. It changed the way I think about certain things. One particular chapter stuck out to me. There was a paragraph that asked you to imagine yourself at your funeral. It then asked, how do you think the people at your funeral would speak of you? How would you want them to speak of you? That made me really think about the way I was living my life. Am I living in a way that people would say that I was a good man, father, husband, or friend? I realized that that was important to me so I started living life differently. I wish that I could say the way god intended, but I'm flawed.
The three things which I am most thankful for
- My Son. Family is very important to me and we have a lot of fun. I love him very much.
- Dependable friends that are always there in a time of need.
- God has blessed me with a good life. I try to focus on those things instead of negative things.
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
I think at times people perceive me to be one way and once they get to know me they realize that I'm much different. That's why I think it's important to get to know someone before you label them. The trick to this is complete honesty. If I am speaking with someone that I just met I speak honestly. This is especially important when the possibility of romance is involved. I've seen many guys portray themselves as someone that they are not to impress a girl. As you can probably guess, the relationship doesn't last long.Ii want someone to like me for me, not someone I pretend to be.
Friends Describe me as
Funny, Genuine, Loyal, Physically Fit
A little more about me
I am not a club or bar guy. My idea of a good date is dinner and conversation. I prefer spending most of my time with my significant other rather than my friends. It is important to me that my partner is fun to be with because I want to be in love with my best friend. Imagine having the kind of relationship where you love hanging out with the love of your life! I tend to fool around a lot and make people laugh so I need someone with a good sense of humor. I have a good life. I appreciate what God has given me. I would like for my partner to see all of her blessings as well. I feel that I have a lot to offer.I want something that's long lastin