The one thing I am passionate about...
music would be my number 1. it is the only thing that can take me from a 20 to 0. It takes me to another place... helps me remember what i was doing when i 1st heard it. My kids also tend to sooth me when I have had a rough day. They are so innocent and I can't tell them how bad my day was... so i stop to hear how wonderful or confussing thiers was! last but not least my faith!!!! With out God in my life I feel I would have faltered so many times. when the lord is in your heart , you walk taller, you sing sweeter, and you know that everything is going to be okay!!! And singing his praises will always melt away your stress.
I typically spend my leisure time
I enjoy outdoor activities w/ my kids, like camping & fishing. My daughters love cheerleading and when my schedule allows I volunteer as a coach
The most influential person in my life has been
I think it is very important that a man posesses certain qualities that I consider to be morals and values. Not just Religious, also involving sex, family, and work ethic. I often get called old fashioned or a prude by my girlfriends, but I believe those examples should be on a priority list and how a potential mate ranks them, lets me know if he has the qualities I would like in a mate.
The first thing people notice about me
Its usually tattoos. Don't get scared.... all of my tatts have a meaning. They all represent my pride in my heritage. They all have a native american theme. Even though I'm sure its not going to be a question in this survey, but I prefer a man with a love for body art and even some modification or peircing
The last book I read and enjoyed
The last book I read was "Twilight - New Moon" It was about teenage vampires in love w/ a human, and a native american tribe who's teenagers turn into werewolves. The vampires and the werewolves have not gotten along in centuries but have a treaty they abide by. The 2 main boys in the story, 1 vampire & 1 werewolf, are both in love w/ the main human character and she must chose who she loves before the boys kill each other. What I liked most about the story was reading it aloud to my kids and then watching the movie. It was also a great depiction of native americans still living on reservations and thier folklore.
The three things which I am most thankful for
- 1. My kids. They are my world. They have been through a lot these past 18 months and I want to get them back to thier norm asap.
- 2. My Family. They have always been beside me threw every life altering change i've had to go threw!! Teen pregnancy, abuse, divorce, starting over w/ a 1 year old. Especially my father!! He is my ROCK!!!! with out him i could have NEVER gotten threw the past few months. I am his Baby Girl.... and always will be!!!
- 3. My Friends. I have very few close friends, but the couple that have stuck around... they are GREAT!!! Most come from school so we have been friends for about 17-26 years. starting in KG and to Jr. high and High school. Alot of us were cheerleaders, so we had a special bond. but now its real life drama!! We go threw each others breakups, stand by for new arrivals and give input on names:) although it hardly ever works out that way!!! They are my support system and i couldn't imagine life w/o them.
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
My mind. In meeting someone for the first time, in a social situation, you don't usually get into meaningful conversations, I guess to avoid offending someone you haven't gotten to know yet?!?! But in a first date situation, I would hope to avoid politics, religion and other hot topics. Untill you know where they stand?! But I guess if this site does its job.... We should agree on those things and also have so many other things in common- the conversation should never get akward.
Friends Describe me as
Dependable, Genuine, Intelligent, Outgoing
A little more about me
In addition to being attentive, compassionate, and loyal, I am waiting on a great man that I can share every aspect of my life with. I have had my share of men who have used me, layed up in my home while I worked 10-12 hour days, and now i just want a MAN who wants a good woman to take care of him, the kids and the home. I'm sure there is a good man out there who is also sick of being done wrong and would love a beautiful, sain, trustworthy, down to earth woman to spoil HIM!!!???
What I like to read
Autobiography / Biography, Contemporary Literature & Fiction, Mystery & Thrillers
Books I've read
focused on serial killers, james patterson, twilight series
Sports I enjoy playing
Baseball, Hiking, Horseback Riding, Shooting, Swimming
Sports I enjoy watching
Basketball, Extreme Sports, Football, Gymnastics, Other
Music I like to listen to
travis mccoy & pearl jam, snoop dogg & lil wayne, john legend & fantasia, tim mcgraw & lady ant, guns n roses & lynard skynard
Music I like to perform
Country, Gospel, R&B and Soul
Movies I like to Watch
Action, Drama, Educational
Favorite Movies to Watch
i hope they serve beer in hell, american gangster, the fighting temptations
TV I like to Watch
Comedy, Other, True Crime
My Favorite TV Shows
its always sunny in philadelphia, the first 48, the ultimate fighter