The one thing I am passionate about...
One? who has one?? I strive for balance so here's " a few" areas: salty, sweet, spiced, savory, crispy, combined flavors. yummm...feeling the fear of being on stage and still belting it with the ache and accuracy and pull of singing from the heart finding the lesson even when God throws you a big disappointmentlaugh-til-you-cry or cry-cause-it-hurts friendships. getting on my knees and saying out loud "lord, show me...change me"addressing fears--K, get this...I used to be petrified of water! yup, I know, right? I just started SCUBA lessons! love, love it. where do you want to run away for a week and go explore?
I typically spend my leisure time
on the couch with a soft plush blanket and a great book in one hand a tea in the other; in the middle front row of a class; flour on my face or meat sauces under my nails creating...and of course inviting you to sit with me and refill my wine glass to let it dance around on our tongues; pinching your butt with my rubber gloves on while we clean the huge mess a 4 part meal from scratch makes:) ; at a nice restaurant with shiny elegant long earrings and face-to-face with a dear friend; making weird faces at my own image on Skype talking to family; oot ooting like a monkey during voice lessons that make you do these weird noises...that work!
The most influential person in my life has been
I adore a man who can admit when he's wrong. yes, the ability to be honest--especially with themselves is very sexy! Similar wants/goals makes my heart open to yours when you're mature enough to share them. I trust you and we have FUN!...AND work thru that silly argument or oops I hurt you...work it through gracefully and laugh about it later:) or burn to touch our skin because we are closer for having communicated well, not "fought." I've learned the relationship that brings me the most fulfillment and lets me be my best self is when a man can relax, caress, confide in me and enjoys frequent time together. we are at ease
The first thing people notice about me
I'm short! it creeps up on ya. Can you laugh at your "shortcomings" with santa's throaty belly-jiggle laugh too?I'm fun and deep at the same time. Look left: I'm in a deep conversation over a nice dinner and wine.Grab my interest by opening up over coffee and then change it up and "hey let's hit the next comedy act!" You can find me sitting appreciating a nature view or listening to you while admiring your gorgeous yellow ring around the pupils or chinking glasses at a pub with a ponytail and sneakersI look younger but speak "older" throws you off, eh? I have fun with it. I have the Asian anti-ag
The last book I read and enjoyed
Embarassing...I'm always deep into more than 1:power thoughts by joyce meyer devotional this year:) I have read every "who moved my cheese" or brian tracy item.I own the Financial Peace set--and am working the steps. ugh and yay! personal/communcation/relationship guidance--I have learned the most here: I can do my part in getting my needs met by expressing them without being demanding; we CAN grow if we learn to talk differently. I can break patterns and be more successful in being close to hear your heart while not "needing" you while your busy or having "me time." love languages:time, touch primaries with a
The three things which I am most thankful for
- Happiness no matter my circumstance
- God teaching me balance...the hard way. :)
- making best friends with my own gut
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
girls fart too! oh geeeez, yup, I said it! go ahead laugh! They actually make me giggle! drama/excuses--I feel yucky about 'em; I feel great when we work it through. please have the maturity if I give you my time to own your "stuff."mistakes--I learn from them. I feel fantastic when we give to each other. I love to laugh and " find the funny" even if it's silly--it's fun! I feel good about enjoying life and being responsible. balance is key.I want 17 kids..tomorrow. I know we are "meant "to be" just by feel. I plan to divorce you, take your money. I only eat tofu and green things. GOTCHA! If you are
Friends Describe me as
Dependable, Genuine, Intelligent, Warm
A little more about me
I'm not married to my career. I look forward to raising kids...together. I know how much work/ expense kids are--I want to enjoy the zany things they do/ say that'll crack us up and be a common front when it comes to discipline/budget. and yes, I'd adore you for providing during this stage of life; student loans can wait.:) I want to enjoy JUST US for awhile first.Please pass me by if you want sex before taking TIME to be friends/fun or need 2 weeks or 20 years to "decide" if we fit, or scare off at the first sign of a disagreement or human foible. I promise to respect you and honor your needs too. Let's chat!
Impossible to Label
What I like to read
Mystery & Thrillers, Religion and Spirituality, Self-Help / Self-Improvement
Books I've read
mary higgins clark, joyce meyer jimmy evans louise hay, ken blanchard
Sports I enjoy playing
Hiking, Horseback Riding
Sports I enjoy watching
Football, Gymnastics, Soccer
Music I like to listen to
dave mathews, john legend, lecrae dignity, kenye west, alicia keyes
Music I like to perform
Blues, Gospel, R&B and Soul
Movies I like to Watch
Action, Drama, Educational
Favorite Movies to Watch
its complicated. just friends. were the millers, transformers. 300., the notebook
TV I like to Watch
Comedy, Crime Drama, Drama
My Favorite TV Shows
take me to stand up! big bang theory i don't watch a lot of tv honestly, fringe csi, house m.d. csi ncis law and order. and i love nature shows. amazing with hd!