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Meet eHarmony member #2033299425 A Single Man in Gorham, ME 24 / Working in retail through college.

Never Never I don't have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 5'7"
  • State: Maine
  • City: Gorham
  • Marital Status: Never Married
  • Has Kids: I don't have kids
  • Pets: Cats, Dogs, Exotic pets, Horses, Rodents (Gerbils, Guinea, Etc.)
  • Education: Some college
  • University: gorham high school

Gorham, ME Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Gorham, looking for a great girl. I completed some college. I'm 5'7". I don't have any kids.

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More about me

The one thing I am passionate about...

Solving problems, and often discussing well known world problems and how to fix them (even if the solution we come up with is ridiculous and laugh about it). Although I don't have a pet of my own, I do enjoy other peoples' pets (particularly cats).

I typically spend my leisure time

Well, the fact that I'm taking this test shows that I really do enjoy the internet. I enjoy browsing the limitless sea of information. But most of the time I'm either enjoying stories and sometimes meditating.

The most influential person in my life has been

The one and only thing I really want to see in a person is honesty. Not just about their lives, but about their personality. They don't have to be open with me all at once. I'm a patient person and I'm willing to wait. If there is ever anything that concerns them about me or our relationship, being honest and open about it with me is the best way to resolve it with me. I like being in calm relationships where I can always look at my partner in the eye and trust that I will always be there for them, and that they will always be there for me. Even if it comes to us just being friends.

The first thing people notice about me

I'm generally a quiet person who sits on the sideline, but people tend to really notice me when a problem or puzzle presents itself, and I'm the first one to step and and try to solve it. If it isn't that, then it's being able to look at a situation and relate it or turn it into something funny.

The last book I read and enjoyed

Blink: The Power of Thinking Without Thinking by Malcolm Gladwell. It is as it says, the power of thinking without thinking. It really got down into how the human subconscious mind works, and how we can all be taught to listen to our own instinct.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. That I have a safe home and neighborhood with some friends I can count on.
  2. The internet and other forms of global communication to relate and talk to people even on the other side of the planet. It's a good way to relate to different cultures and get to know them. The (almost) free information is also a nice touch.
  3. That my mind and body are not crippled, allowing me to take full grasp of knowledge and the truth in the world and stand tall when it matters most.

The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me

That there is a sensitive person underneath. A person that truly cares about all life equally.

Friends Describe me as

Funny, Genuine, Intelligent, Perceptive

A little more about me

I can't answer questions sent to me or look at photos right now. I'm still deciding whether or not to subscribe, but people can talk to me on Face book if they want to talk. Just send me a message, and my account name is Ben Baines.

I am
Impossible to Label

What I like to read

Fantasy & Science Fiction, Mystery & Thrillers, Philosophy

Books I've read

15 hours, blink, sherlock holmes

Sports I enjoy playing

Basketball, Cycling, Martial Arts

Sports I enjoy watching

Basketball, Extreme Sports, Other, Skateboarding

TV I like to Watch

Comedy, Crime Drama, Drama

My Favorite TV Shows

monk, monk, house