The one thing I am passionate about...
I am passionate about my church family. I used to be totally immersed in the church, and was one of it's founding members.Other then that, I love my cocker spaniel Chanel to bits. I love my ten year old niece Hannah and go to all her drama productions.I have very close friends and we spend our summers lakeside around a bonfire having fun.I'm also passionate about sticking close to my community, I love small town living. It may mean driving more for groceries and such, but knowing the people around me is priceless. Lets me know I'm safe on my walks too. Everyone knows who I am and they watch out for me.
I typically spend my leisure time
I have lots of leisure time since I was diagnosed with Alpha 1 and had to give up working.Mostly it's family/dog time, some church.I like to spend my summers on the beach of Lake Michigan, I want to see more of our fine state with someone I love and can appreciate it with.I also like to take of for Palm Beach Florida for some quality cousin time. She lives there and I try to go at least once a year, especially when Michigan winters get to be too much for me.
The most influential person in my life has been
The guy I had, only without the flip flopping and lying. I want a man that knows how to make me feel special, and it comes from his heart, not because he wants me in bed. My perfect guy gives kisses and hugs all the time, holds me, whispers in my ear. I want a guy that does vanilla when we're with people, but wants to play when we're by ourselves. I want to belong to him. When we're alone I'd like to have a man that can be Dominate to my Submissive side, but will listen to my submissive side when she says that's far enough. A Dom that knows I say no for a specific reason, and wants to know how to make it better for me, not
The first thing people notice about me
Either my eyes, or how much I look like my parents. Out of 6 biological grandkids, I am the only one that ended up with my grandfathers bright blue eyes, that sparkle when I'm happy. I've had people tell me that my kind soul is found in my eyes as well.My mom had a liver transplant 6 years ago and when they moved her from ICU to a new room, I had been doing laundry at the hotel we were in. I went in search of her and one nurse found me, oh you must belong to Donna you look just like her. Another nurse came up and said are you crazy she's the spitting image of her dad! I think the dad description is because he's' got thos
The last book I read and enjoyed
My favorite all time favorite book is Gone With The Wind. I love stories of the old south. Taking a step back into time, and seeing where it all went wrong. Even in fiction you can find truth. The book became even more important to me when I went to Charleston S.C. and had the opportunity to see a real slave hut. I could feel the sadness, the misery of the oppressed men and woman forced into slavery. It broke my heart.
The three things which I am most thankful for
- I am thankful for my family who support and guide me
- I am thankful for living through Septic Shock. It was a miracle I didn't die.
- I am thankful for my faith, for without faith number 2 in this list never would have happened.
The one thing I wish MORE people would notice about me
That I'm not cool and standoffish, I'm terrified of rejection and abandonment. And as a septic shock survivor I have anxiety issues over touching things before they are sanitized.
Friends Describe me as
Funny, Loyal, Quiet, Spiritual
A little more about me
I always want to be up front with people. I have a disorder called Alpha 1 Antitrypsin Disorder. My liver won't release a chemical that is part of the immune system and it's most meant for the lining of the lungs. As such I have COPD/emphysema and never smoked a day in my life. I want to live life, and I want to live it with a man that understands plans can change on a dime because of my health. On good days I want to play all day long. On bad days I want to snuggle and feel you close, have you pet my hair and reassure me your sticking by me no matter what. I'll give my total obedience and love to that man.
Centrist/Middle of the Road
What I like to read
Contemporary Literature & Fiction, Nonfiction, Religion and Spirituality
Books I've read
the leading women, 50 shades of grey, my sister's keeper
Sports I enjoy playing
Basketball, Cycling, Hiking, Horseback Riding, Kayaking
Sports I enjoy watching
Baseball, Basketball, Football, Other, Swimming
Music I like to listen to
kelly clarkson, reba mcentire, beyonce, meridith andrews, kenny g
Music I like to perform
Country, R&B and Soul, Reggae, Rock and Pop
Movies I like to Watch
TV I like to Watch
Comedy, Crime Drama, Drama
My Favorite TV Shows
anything that makes me laugh, ncis, grey's anatomy