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Meet eHarmony member #13335375419 A Single Man in Bethlehem, PA 43 / Senior developer

Never Few times a week I have kids


  • Gender: Male
  • Height: 6'0"
  • State: Pennsylvania
  • City: Bethlehem
  • Marital Status: Separated
  • Has Kids: I have kids
  • Pets: Cats
  • Education: Bachelors
  • University: the pennsylvania university

Bethlehem, PA Singles

Hi, I'm a White man, living in Bethlehem, looking for a great girl. I have a Bachelors Degree from the pennsylvania university. I'm 6'0". I have kids.

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The one thing I am passionate about...

I like good conversation, where people listen and are open to new ideas. I read magazines, books, anything really, and like to talk about the four things you aren't supposed to talk about. I love comedians, movies, and science fiction. I liked Gravity and The Martian, but I loved Arrival and read the original short story years ago. Mindhunters was fun and stylistic, but can't hold a candle to the esoteric weirdness of first season of True Detective. I am recently separated with shared custody of my son and still adjusting to the lifestyle.

I typically spend my leisure time

Drawing, painting, exercising, watching movies, reading, sometimes writing. I build furniture, am a decent cook, and setup my own wifi. I like to drive to a park and run the trails surrounded by trees - running on the side of a road eating car exhaust is a lot less appealing to me.

The most influential person in my life has been

Someone who understands reciprocity and can really understand another person's perspective. I would like a grown-up who can take responsibility for their actions. How to frame this in a more positive way - someone with good boundaries and an understanding of them. Someone who knows how to bring an argument down, and not to just pour gasoline on every misunderstanding. Throw in some experience, and a dash of wit, and we should be good.

The first thing people notice about me

I look stern and mean - until I smile. Then I look friendly and easy-going, but that is not my first impression.

The last book I read and enjoyed

I am reading the book that inspired MindHunters on Netflix. It is a history of how Behavioral Sciences got started at the FBI. Engaging, fun read through the 70's and 80's.

The three things which I am most thankful for

  1. I am thankful for my son and his wild spirit
  2. I am thankful for time I have for family and projects.
  3. I am thankful for prosperity and opportunities

Friends Describe me as

Energetic, Funny, Intelligent, Sweet

I am
Somewhat Liberal

What I like to read

Contemporary Literature & Fiction, Fantasy & Science Fiction, History

Books I've read

the praxis, moon is a harsh mistress, bears discover fire, the great derangement, insane clown president, casual vacancy, the cuckoo calling

Sports I enjoy playing

Basketball, Hiking, Running

Sports I enjoy watching

Basketball, Football, Other, Soccer

Movies I like to Watch

Comedy, Science Fiction

Favorite Movies to Watch

birdman, the revenant, reign over me, i heart huckabees, the interview, reign of fire, thor ragnarock, the dark knight, the incredibles, wonder woman, the guardians of the galaxy, locke, stranger than fiction, ex machina, everything must go, crouching tiger, hidden dragon, ip man

TV I like to Watch

Comedy, Crime Drama, Drama

My Favorite TV Shows

true detective, mindhunters, the wire, the sopranos, the pacific, veep, bill burr, jim jefferies, curb your enthusiasm, silicon valley