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The Five Love Languages

Do you speak the language of love? Read this blog to find out.

To boldly go where no blog has gone before (This is the blog you are looking for)

Star Wars and Star Trek fans love to debate which is better. In this exploration of eHarmony users, we examined the personality differences and eHarmony popularity of those behind the debates: the fans.

Trusting Your Partner Can Make You Live Longer

Trust is an important aspect of a relationship. But how important? Recent research found trusting your partner can lead to longer life expectancy. Read here to find out why.

Dating Advice: Valentine’s Day- more harm than good for couples?

Should new relationships be avoided or encouraged around Valentine’s Day? While the holiday provides an opportunity for couples to express their intimate feelings for one another the very nature of the holiday might overwhelm fledgling relationships, or break those that are teetering.

The Best of 2011

As the year ends, we remember some of our favorite and most popular blogs of 2011. Dating, relationship, and sex advice – read more about the latest research.

How many relationships should you have before settling down with ‘the one’?

Has anyone identified the number of relationships you should have before you decide to settle down? According to Peter Todd, he has. And the answer might surprise you.

To Text or Not To Text? Dating and Your Mobile Phone

When you are starting a new relationship, how should you use your phone? Should you call or text them? What kind of underlying signals are you sending along with your text message? Read here to find out.

“I love you this many dollars worth.”

“Presents are the best way to show someone how much you care. It is like this tangible thing that you can point to and say, ‘Hey man, I love you this many dollars-worth.’” – Michael Scott

How true is this quote? Is it really the thought that counts, or deep down are you placing a dollar amount on your relationship?

For love and money: 6 steps to keeping financial problems at bay in your relationship

Finances can be a major source of concern and conflict for many couples. Find out why money is such a major issue and what successful couples do to keep their checkbooks in order.

Having a bad day? Write about it. Having a good day? Think about it.

I have a few friends who love to journal. They write down everything that happens in their lives. They tell me it makes them feel better because they gain some perspective on the day. But this may not always be the best thing.

Where does your empathy come from?

Do you ever get to the point where you feel as though you and your partner have absolutely nothing in common? Read further to find out the one common thread that lies in almost all of us.

How to Look on the Brightside

Are you as sick of celebrity infidelity news items as I am? Read on to learn how we can take a stand and celebrate the good people around us instead of concentrating on the duds.

Some things get better with age

Some assumptions about aging adults are debunked in a recent review on social relationships across the adulthood. Here are just some of the many things to look forward to in older adulthood.

To Err is Human; to Forgive, Divine

A long history of research has shown the power of forgiving. It benefits the transgressor and the victim. One of the things that research has been showing recently is that forgiveness isn’t the same across all relationships and can have big impacts on the entire family.

A Peek Behind the Curtain – Part II: Test Validity

In this series of blogs, I will be giving readers a glimpse of the methods and statistics we use at eHarmony Labs to help our users find satisfying relationships. I’ll try to do it in a reader-friendly, equation-free manner. Today I am going to write about validity of our measures and why it is so important.

I am a Success Story (and you can be too!)

Read on to discover how losing focus can help you to find what you’re looking for.

A Peek Behind the Curtain – Part I: Test Reliability

In this new series of blogs, I will be giving readers a glimpse of the methods and statistics we use at eHarmony Labs to help our users find satisfying relationships. I’ll try to do it in a reader-friendly, equation-free manner. Today I am going to write about reliability of our measures and why it is so important.

One third of us have tried dating websites with middle-aged suitors using them most

Across the globe, more people are finding love on the Internet. Learn more about online dating trends from eHarmony’s collaboration with the Oxford Internet Institute.

Want a wealth of relationship health? Be Yourself!

What’s the easiest thing you can do to improve your relationship? BE YOURSELF. Read on to find out why Dr. Seuss’s advice was right all along.

Relationships get better with age

Recent studies show that older people have better relationships. What is the secret to their success?

Partner’s Picture Prevents Pain

Another reason why staying socially connected to your loved ones is so important: pain reduction. Looking at photos of one’s significant other during physically painful situations reduced perceptions of pain. Partners are often thought of as being a pain, but in this case, their photo might prove to be the opposite!

Cry Me a Reason: The Benefits of Crying in Relationships

Recent research on crying suggests that tears can benefit close relationships. Find out the evolutionary meaning behind tears and how they could be helping you.

Schrodinger’s Cat and the Study of Close Relationships: The Influence of Relationship Science Research on its Participants’ Relationships

Does studying relationships change the relationships being studied? Not surprisingly, yes. However, precisely how relationship research alters its participants’ relationships is still a matter of debate. A recent paper from Hughes and Surra (2000) offers some interesting answers…

Always look on the bright side…

Should we be more optimistic? The answer if yes, if we listen to others…find out why.

YOU…are AMAZING

Dubbed the “me” generation, those born between 1970 and 1999 are a generation of individuals who have focused on themselves more than any other previous generation. What does this mean for an entire generation? Find out more.