Dating

The Five Love Languages

Do you speak the language of love? Read this blog to find out.

Love Pill #9

Would you take a pill to save your relationship? Researchers are suggesting that this type of “medicine” might not be too far off.

Have the rules of dating changed over the last 30 years?

Although the world changes quickly, does dating keep up with the times? A recent study looks at people’s ideas of dating and how they have changed over the last 30 years.

Five easy ways to have more sex

Read on to learn easy things you can do to improve your chances in the dating world.

Fall in love now: Surprising lessons from a cell biologist

When you are in love, every cell in your body feels love, too. Find out how love can affect your heart and health, and discover why you don’t need a partner to fall in love.

Is he generous or does he just want to have sex?

Men use flashy goods to show their wealth, but do they show off in other ways? Generosity may also be used as a mating strategy to impress women.

Unrequited love: What to do when the feeling isn’t mutual

What happens when you spill your guts and declare your love to a friend, only to find your advance is unrequited? Can the friendship be saved, or is it doomed? Read on to find out how to predict what will happen to your friendship.

How many times do you look at a profile before communicating?

You are online dating. You see a profile that you like. Before you communicate, do you wait and take another look at the profile just to make sure? Most people do on average, but this depends on a number of factors. Find out more.

The Top Ten ‘Can’t Stands’ for Men: No Matter Where You Live, No One Likes a Liar

It turns out that men nominate their top ten ‘can’t stands’ (deal-breakers) almost identically, regardless of what part of the US (or Canada) they call home. Looking at tens of thousands of eHarmony users across various regions in the US and Canada found relatively few differences in the type and order of their ‘Can’t Stands.’

How does your first name influence your online dating success? The curse of Sheldon.

New research points out that having a negative first name hurts your chances in the world of online dating (and beyond).

Pornography good for your relationship?

Racy books, erotic videos – is it possible that sexually explicit media can benefit a relationship? Find out how.

Dating Advice: Valentine’s Day- more harm than good for couples?

Should new relationships be avoided or encouraged around Valentine’s Day? While the holiday provides an opportunity for couples to express their intimate feelings for one another the very nature of the holiday might overwhelm fledgling relationships, or break those that are teetering.

Does online dating level the playing field on attractiveness?

Online dating should theoretically give individuals an even chance to appear attractive, since the text in their profile could help offset aesthetic deficiencies. Online profiles with attractive photos are often rated overall as more attractive, but what of the text?

Why broken promises aren’t always a bad sign

If he loved me he would stop smoking; if she loved me she wouldn’t talk to other guys. When people make and break promises in relationships, most take this as a bad sign. But researchers disagree. Find out why.

The Best of 2011

As the year ends, we remember some of our favorite and most popular blogs of 2011. Dating, relationship, and sex advice – read more about the latest research.

How your attractiveness affects your perception of others

Have you ever been to a bar or other social hangout and been approached by someone who just doesn’t get the hint that you’re not interested? Conversely, have you felt that that you were doing everything you can to send an “ask-me-for-my-number” signal to no avail? Why do we have such difficulty in accurately reading sexual cues from others?

Scientists use serotonin to change the way you think about relationships

A recent study shows that chemicals in the brain can alter the way you think about romantic relationships. Find out how and what this means for your next date.

How you can kill love with “should,” “always” and “never.” Do you have unrealistic expectations for a relationship?

Do you expect your relationships to have a perfect fairytale ending? That you’ll never fight and will always be happy? Read more about this research to find out how unrealistic expectations about relationships may actually undermine them.

Soulmates – how believing in them (or not) affects your relationships

Do you believe in soulmates? Read the latest research and find out how your beliefs about relationships can impact your approach to relationships and the long-term quality.

How many relationships should you have before settling down with ‘the one’?

Has anyone identified the number of relationships you should have before you decide to settle down? According to Peter Todd, he has. And the answer might surprise you.

“We’re in love, so we’ll work it out” and other dating myths

As yet another celebrity marriage bites the dust, one wonders if these two actually talked about the realities of the future more than the endorsements for the wedding ceremony. To give them the benefit of the doubt that at least one or two conversations were had before the trip down the aisle, what kept them from seeing the obvious red flags? What can dating couples learn from Kris and Kim’s demise?

Do you take your own relationship advice?

When I read the community boards, I see a lot of great advice given by members. You are wise. But do you follow your own advice? Knowing the right thing to do in relationships and actually choosing to do it are not always tied together. Find out why.

How can you tell if someone is interested?

Studies show that most people are really bad at knowing who is attracted to them. Although human attraction is a complex issue, psychologists have made a few steps in helping to solve this riddle. Read on.

“I love you this many dollars worth.”

“Presents are the best way to show someone how much you care. It is like this tangible thing that you can point to and say, ‘Hey man, I love you this many dollars-worth.’” – Michael Scott

How true is this quote? Is it really the thought that counts, or deep down are you placing a dollar amount on your relationship?

How long do you wait for the ring?

You have a great guy. You’ve beeen serious for a while. You would like to take the relationship to the permanent next level but your man has yet to agree. Is your guy patient or just stringing you along? How long should you wait for a proposal?