Archive for the ‘Friendship’ Category

It’s a great life if you don’t weaken: social resources and perception of distress

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

A number of studies have suggested that we perceive others level of distress quite differently based on how many social resources we feel we have at the moment. In other words when we feel supported by others we tend not to feel as overwhelmed by stressful situations.

Remembering birthdays is easier when it’s close to your own

Thursday, March 13th, 2008

Remembering birthdays close to your own birthday as an example of the egocentric bias in temporal memory.

I forgive you, but my friend doesn’t

Wednesday, February 20th, 2008

Why friends may be less forgiving than we are for our partner’s transgressions.

Food Preferences Impact Relationships

Tuesday, February 19th, 2008

As someone who loves great food, I thought this article in the New York Times was particularly interesting. It discussed how different food choices could be stressful on relationships. Discover what other studies say about why sharing food in your relationships may be important.

Forgive and feel better

Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

Forgiving someone can effect how good you feel about yourself. Find out how.

Socializing is good for the brain

Tuesday, February 5th, 2008

Recent research found that socializing could be just as important for the brain as completing more high-minded, intellectual tasks. Read why, then go out with your friends and discuss.

Elderly women benefit more from social support than men

Wednesday, January 23rd, 2008

A research study shows that elderly women benefit more from social support than men. Read more and find out why it’s important to show support to the woman you love.

…but you CAN buy an iPhone.

Friday, January 11th, 2008

John Helliwell is quoted as saying: “People tend to overestimate the amount of satisfaction they will get from material things and underestimate the satisfaction they derive from human connections. That’s one reason so many people choose a work environment that ends up making them miserable.” Is this why I don’t need an iPhone?

Cainus Lupus vs. Gip: The relationship benefits of teasing

Wednesday, December 19th, 2007

Dr. Dacher Keltner, one of the worlds leading experts on teasing, proposes that teasing serves some very important social functions. Read more.

Surprising competition from your family over partners

Monday, December 17th, 2007

Ever wonder why your friends and family members go for the same partners you do? Are they just trying to sabotage you or is the pickin’ really that slim? Turns out your “visual diet” may be the same; your familiarity with each other means you find the same people attractive. Harvard researchers explain…

Why Familiarity Breeds Contempt

Friday, November 30th, 2007

Relationship research tends to walk a meandering path between the obvious, the obscure and the ridiculous… with only rare visits to what might be considered brilliant. The extension of attachment theory to adult romantic relationships in 1987 by Hazan and Shaver comes to mind as one of the most recent examples that I would call brilliant. An article that I read today Less is More: The Lure of Ambiguity, or Why Familiarity Breeds Contempt falls much closer to the “ridiculous” end of the path.

Be Thankful and Build a Relationship

Friday, November 16th, 2007

Being thankful and feeling appreciation is more than just a positive emotion. It can help build and strengthen your relationships.

Eating with others affects what you eat

Wednesday, November 14th, 2007

People you eat with not only influence why you eat but also how much…find out more.

Why do some Men Misunderstand Friendliness for Sexual Intent?

Tuesday, November 13th, 2007

While many women already know this answer because they lead a social lifestyle that includes going to parties, restaurants, bars, or any type of mixed-gender social gatherings, researchers at Wayne State University and University of Texas, San Antonio wanted it to be crystal clear: it’s because of their attitudes on sex, views of women, and consumption of alcohol.


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