Archive for the ‘Emotions’ Category

Use a Little Humor to Get What You Want

Friday, April 4th, 2008

A little humor goes a long way, especially when you’re bargaining. Find out how.

It’s a great life if you don’t weaken: social resources and perception of distress

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

A number of studies have suggested that we perceive others level of distress quite differently based on how many social resources we feel we have at the moment. In other words when we feel supported by others we tend not to feel as overwhelmed by stressful situations.

Smell the Danger

Tuesday, April 1st, 2008

A rose by any other name would smell as sweet, but what makes the smell memorable? Would a rose still be sweet if it was paired with a negative experience? Read more to find out.

Two Keys to Happiness

Friday, March 28th, 2008

Having what you want and wanting what you have are two different and important factors in predicting happiness.

If the world seems angry it may just be you

Wednesday, March 26th, 2008

Do you ever wonder why the world seems so hostile? Well it may not be the world, you yourself may be making the world a more hostile place. This is according to the findings of a recent study done by researchers at Iowa State University on how aggressive people can shape their social world.

What’s Love Got to Do With It? Turns out a Lot!

Tuesday, March 25th, 2008

Two of the most widely published and well respected researchers in relationship science got together to review what psychological science knows about love. As it turns out, according to Drs. Henry Reis and Arthur Aron, “a uniquely psychological perspective on love can be identified.” Here are a few of the highlights they point out.

Sex doesn’t make you happier if you’re already depressed

Tuesday, March 25th, 2008

A new study out of Australia finds that depressed women are more likely to be engaging in sex and sexual activity than their mentally well counterparts. So why aren’t they happy?

Do it for the kids.

Saturday, March 22nd, 2008

Staying in a bad relationship isn’t good for anyone. From the standpoint of promoting family cohesion as a panacea for child welfare, there is pretty compelling evidence that it’s the emotional content of a relationship that matters, not the label that can be applied to it.

Another Reason Not to Stress

Thursday, March 20th, 2008

The quantity and quality of studies that report a link between stress and poor health is such that it seems to be a definitive finding at this point. However, there is a relatively new study that suggests that stress not only has a negative impact on the person experiencing the stress, it could also have negative effects on the person’s children.

Is Happiness in our genes?

Wednesday, March 5th, 2008

A recent study investigates how much influence our genes have on our subjective well being (e.g., how happy we are with our lives). Learn more about what they found.

The Connection between Personality, Sexual Satisfaction, and Marital Quality

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

It’s long been known that aspects of your personality can affect the quality of your relationships. Highly neurotic people, for example, are more likely to have negative relationship quality. In a recent study, researchers find that sexual satisfaction mediates this relationship between neuroticism and marital satisfaction. Find out how.

So Happy Together…

Tuesday, March 4th, 2008

An international pair of researchers, Ulrich Schimmack of the University of Toronto and Richard Lucas of the University of Michigan, have conducted a study on the long-term happiness of married couples that may have profound implications for our understanding of what makes people happy in long-term relationships.

Marriage means closing doors

Thursday, February 28th, 2008

Dan Ariely’s new book “Predictably Irrational” shows us how much we dislike having our options taken away.

Show them how you feel

Wednesday, February 27th, 2008

Over the past few months I have written several blogs on how experiencing and expressing positive emotions can make you healthier, happier, and have more fulfilling and satisfying relationships. Is the opposite true?


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