Comments on: Interest is in the Eye of the Beholder http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/ Hot Science Blog Thu, 29 Oct 2009 15:14:21 -0700 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Cinthia http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-114064 Cinthia Wed, 09 Sep 2009 00:32:09 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-114064 Dear ladies, Don't lose hope! I am 45 Plus .... (smile) I wear my age well. I consder myself attractive, slender with a muscular build. I am often told that I do not look my age by various age groups. Truth be told, if I was a cougar looking for a young man, I can have one. However, I am a professional woman similar to Ayantu in that I don't do substances, drugs or tobacco and I am single with no children. I do attend church. I have faith that I am getting closer to my finding my soul mate. I am planning a trip to Israel. I like to travel and help people who are less fortunate than myself. I am a giver from the heart. I need someone that can appreciate that trait in a good woman. Best of wishes Ladies for the man of your dreams or visions! Dear ladies,

Don’t lose hope! I am 45 Plus …. (smile) I wear my age well. I consder myself attractive, slender with a muscular build. I am often told that I do not look my age by various age groups. Truth be told, if I was a cougar looking for a young man, I can have one.

However, I am a professional woman similar to Ayantu in that I don’t do substances, drugs or tobacco and I am single with no children. I do attend church. I have faith that I am getting closer to my finding my soul mate.

I am planning a trip to Israel. I like to travel and help people who are less fortunate than myself. I am a giver from the heart. I need someone that can appreciate that trait in a good woman.

Best of wishes Ladies for the man of your dreams or visions!

]]> By: Judi http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-113510 Judi Sun, 06 Sep 2009 02:29:28 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-113510 I wish Eharmony would take off anyone who is not actually using the site. I communicate with most of my "Matches" and almost never get any response. I agree most of these guys are not actually on Eharmony or they would at least close the "match". This needs to improve: it is very discouraging to think you are being rejected or ignored by almost every match. Friends of mine (all attreactive) have had the same problem. This could be a good site if this problem was resolved! I wish Eharmony would take off anyone who is not actually using the site. I communicate with most of my “Matches” and almost never get any response. I agree most of these guys are not actually on Eharmony or they would at least close the “match”. This needs to improve: it is very discouraging to think you are being rejected or ignored by almost every match. Friends of mine (all attreactive) have had the same problem. This could be a good site if this problem was resolved!

]]> By: Patricia http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-106449 Patricia Wed, 22 Jul 2009 02:10:27 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-106449 I have to remind myself that I am looking for "my friend", the one that I want to spend most of my time with because he loves to be with me, he feels good, comfortable, challenged, accepted, etc. I say reminded because I am attracted to sweet talkers, flirts, smart alecks, sweet guys and I am very tolerant and patient. Yet, I don't care to see myself struggle, question, doubt, anger, sadden over someone's lack of interest, respect, consideration, protection, or selfishness. So, I need to assume responsability for myself and reminds myself that true love goes way beyond the first date. I have to remind myself that I am looking for “my friend”, the one that I want to spend most of my time with because he loves to be with me, he feels good, comfortable, challenged, accepted, etc. I say reminded because I am attracted to sweet talkers, flirts, smart alecks, sweet guys and I am very tolerant and patient. Yet, I don’t care to see myself struggle, question, doubt, anger, sadden over someone’s lack of interest, respect, consideration, protection, or selfishness. So, I need to assume responsability for myself and reminds myself that true love goes way beyond the first date.

]]> By: Ayantu Oluma http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-101914 Ayantu Oluma Mon, 29 Jun 2009 09:27:53 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-101914 I am a 40 y/o single but i look like i am 25 y/o younger skin I am a RN (Nurse) no kids I am still waiting for my soul mate i know love does not know color so i could be marride with some one that i am meant to be with. The problem how in the world could I find someone who does not drink alcohol who does not smoke or who does not do drug becuase i never smoke i do not drink alcohol or I never done drugs. I like one to go out of my way and help other person on the steet my goal is to go out in Africa or other poor countries and use my Nursing skills and help I would like to have a husband who would share the same life style. So far I do not see that person.Going on line for me feels like desperation all my life I waited on God to bring me my soul mate but now I lost hope and faith in God because waiting 40 years is a long time. As far as I am concern now a days men want just yonger girls to have fun parting I do not know if there are any men with good moral. I am a 40 y/o single but i look like i am 25 y/o younger skin I am a RN (Nurse) no kids I am still waiting for my soul mate i know love does not know color so i could be marride with some one that i am meant to be with. The problem how in the world could I find someone who does not drink alcohol who does not smoke or who does not do drug becuase i never smoke i do not drink alcohol or I never done drugs. I like one to go out of my way and help other person on the steet my goal is to go out in Africa or other poor countries and use my Nursing skills and help I would like to have a husband who would share the same life style. So far I do not see that person.Going on line for me feels like desperation all my life I waited on God to bring me my soul mate but now I lost hope and faith in God because waiting 40 years is a long time. As far as I am concern now a days men want just yonger girls to have fun parting I do not know if there are any men with good moral.

]]> By: Spence http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-101857 Spence Sun, 28 Jun 2009 02:44:21 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-101857 Sharon, I think it depends on many different things. I don't get many matches so usually "communicate" based strictly on the photo and don't even read the profile until a later stage. Also, what are you considering rejection? I attempt to communicate with many people but never get a response......not even a "closed" message. I have come to learn that profiles are not removed just because the person has unsubscribed. You may be getting tons of matches with people that are not even checking it anymore. Sharon,

I think it depends on many different things. I don’t get many matches so usually “communicate” based strictly on the photo and don’t even read the profile until a later stage.

Also, what are you considering rejection? I attempt to communicate with many people but never get a response……not even a “closed” message. I have come to learn that profiles are not removed just because the person has unsubscribed. You may be getting tons of matches with people that are not even checking it anymore.

]]> By: Sharon http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-101825 Sharon Sat, 27 Jun 2009 14:38:29 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-101825 What i am most wondering right now is if I am being rejected so many times more because of my photo or my profile. What i am most wondering right now is if I am being rejected so many times more because of my photo or my profile.

]]> By: Blanca http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-97683 Blanca Tue, 09 Jun 2009 15:47:04 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-97683 I guess we are all wondering if Gary's attempt actually worked. It was certainly a great try! Take care ladies. I guess we are all wondering if Gary’s attempt actually worked. It was certainly a great try! Take care ladies.

]]> By: Lori http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-93836 Lori Thu, 28 May 2009 21:08:40 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-93836 Hahaha Brenda - that was good. Hahaha Brenda – that was good.

]]> By: Brenda http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-93765 Brenda Thu, 28 May 2009 18:05:40 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-93765 Nice move Gary. Any takers? Nice move Gary. Any takers?

]]> By: gary http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/2009/04/interest-is-in-the-eye-of-the-beholder/comment-page-1/#comment-93423 gary Tue, 26 May 2009 05:48:34 +0000 http://www.eharmony.com/labs/blog/?p=683#comment-93423 I would like to meet a cheerful and pretty woman between the age of 35 to 45. I am a ex marine and have a bs degree in electronis. I enjoy sports and going to movies.I am 6:1 and weight 240. I would like to meet a cheerful and pretty woman between the age of 35 to 45. I am a ex marine and have a bs degree in electronis. I enjoy sports and going to movies.I am 6:1 and weight 240.

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