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	<title>Comments on: Life changes:  Personality across the years</title>
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		<title>By: eden</title>
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		<description>In my observation, people become better mate-material as they age because of wisdom, self-control, and experience.

But everyone experiences age-prejudice because no one is as beautiful at 60 as they were at 30, so less potential mates possible. Age narrows your ability to attract a mate, but age actually gives you much better mate-satisfaction.

Why did Demi Moore successfully attract and keep a MUCH younger man as Ashton Kutcher is? Such marriages are becoming more common. Why? 
Maybe some men are wising up to the fact that an older woman has much more to offer in way of inner resources than do insecure twenty-somethings.;-)

For women who are only attracted to possible mates in their own age-group, such as their 40&#039;s, the mate-pool-selection is way too small. Much more about supply-and-demand.

A woman over 40 has much fewer mates possibilites than a man over 40: less social stigma for an older man to marry a much younger woman than vice-versa.
(hence the controversial marriage of Demi Moore to Ashton Kutcher).</description>
		<content:encoded><![CDATA[<p>In my observation, people become better mate-material as they age because of wisdom, self-control, and experience.</p>
<p>But everyone experiences age-prejudice because no one is as beautiful at 60 as they were at 30, so less potential mates possible. Age narrows your ability to attract a mate, but age actually gives you much better mate-satisfaction.</p>
<p>Why did Demi Moore successfully attract and keep a MUCH younger man as Ashton Kutcher is? Such marriages are becoming more common. Why?<br />
Maybe some men are wising up to the fact that an older woman has much more to offer in way of inner resources than do insecure twenty-somethings.;-)</p>
<p>For women who are only attracted to possible mates in their own age-group, such as their 40&#8217;s, the mate-pool-selection is way too small. Much more about supply-and-demand.</p>
<p>A woman over 40 has much fewer mates possibilites than a man over 40: less social stigma for an older man to marry a much younger woman than vice-versa.<br />
(hence the controversial marriage of Demi Moore to Ashton Kutcher).</p>
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