Comments on: Kids or no kids…that is the question

By: Lizzie

Lizzie — Sat, 24 Oct 2009 14:11:24 +0000

EHarmony – are you listening? Shelly expressed my frustration exactly. I have been waiting to subscribe to see if you STOP sending me matches who have children, but apparently not. You don’t even offer the ‘how important is this to you’ option on that question? For most us who do not want children, it means this is NONNEGOTIABLE. I hope you will take the time to reconsider and retool the way in which you approach this subject.

By: Shelly

Shelly — Fri, 26 Jun 2009 14:09:49 +0000

The profile questions if you would be ok with your match having children 18 years or younger. On my questionare I said “NO”. So, why does EVERY match sent to me have children ? Another question that I am baffled about, is the question “Do you wish to have children?” which all of these matches sent to me say “NO”, but they already have children?! Why isn’t there a specific reason listed that is revelant to the topic as to why I closed my match?

By: Peggy

Peggy — Thu, 17 Jan 2008 22:44:21 +0000

Finally, someone is talking about this issue. I gave up a profitable career in order to stay home with the kids. I think my kids turned out better for it, but I somehow feel cheated of a “life unlived”. I hope my daughter doesn’t have to make an “either/or” decision.